I've recently started masturbating, but haven't had a real orgasm yet. If you have some advice for me (I'm eighteen), I would appreciate it. Thanks!
2006-08-14 13:40:32 · 6 answers · asked by kewlchic189 4 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Don't try so hard to pleasure yourself. You need to just relax and start out slow, do what feels good then keep it up until it feels great then continue until you reach your peek.
What does make you feel good? Rubbing with the tips of your fingers around your clit? Pinching your nipples? Inserting your fingers or something else inside yourself? When you figure these things out then that is what you need to do, and continue to do it until you reach orgasm.
Picture your boyfriend or some other hot guy you wish you were with and wish they were the one doing this to you. Don't be afraid to try something new. Explore yourself and discover all those things that make you feel exceptional.
Take your time, don't try to rush it, don't try to force it. Take an afternoon off when you can be by yourself, pamper yourself, make yourself feel special. Lay back on your bed or somewhere else you feel comfortable and cozy. Start easy and do the slow build up.
Keep trying, and don't give up.
Good luck.
2006-08-14 13:51:59 · answer #1 · answered by wetsaway 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
An electric toothbrush. It works wonders.
2006-08-14 20:57:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Know one just lays down and has an orgasm, think
about stuff that makes you in the mood...........
2006-08-14 21:02:43 · answer #3 · answered by koko 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't stress about whether or not it's going to happen, keep focus on what you're doing (ie, don't let your mind wander to what you want for lunch), and buy a vibrator ;)
2006-08-14 20:45:28 · answer #4 · answered by KyLeth 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hmmmm.. well the best way is about the only way. Lick your finger and rub it on your clit in circular motions.
2006-08-14 20:47:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
watch some porn that should work! or buy a dildo/vibrator.
2006-08-14 20:48:13 · answer #6 · answered by Crazy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋