2006-08-14 13:37:30 · 12 answers · asked by tilman 1 in Games & Recreation ➔ Other - Games & Recreation
If a guy is railing you, it's a pretty good indicator.
2006-08-14 13:40:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, no attraction to the opposite sex is not an indicator that you are homosexual in nature. No attraction to the opposite, or same sex is a sexual orientation in and of itself. It's called being Asexual. It is fairly common, with former New York City Mayor Ed Koch being one. It is most common among people with low growth hormone (not dwarfism), but can happen to anyone.
An attraction to males, rather than females, may also not be an indicator of homosexuality, as you may also just be late in developing the hormones with control such attractions to the opposite sex. Young males are generally more comfortable with the same sex, than the opposite sex. You may be simply maturing slower, which is a signal that you will have a much longer life span than is normal.
The only one who can answer your question with the clear conscience is yourself. Not knowing how old you are it can be any one of the above factors, at least until you reach age 30, which is when you are fully mature.
Remember, even if you are gay, the choice to express yourself in this manner is fully up to you. According to the American Psychological Association, there are multiple sexual orientations, including the attraction to children. People with this last orientation are expected and encouraged to not act out on it. That says it is possible to make the choice not to be something other than heterosexual.
Whether you choose that is fully up to you and what type of life you wish to live. If you find that you are homosexual, and choose to express your life in such a way, there will be many drawbacks to that choice, but you do have the right and freedom to live in the way you most feel comfortable and will be happy with.
There will be those you say that it is against God's Way, which is true, but than so are many such behaviors, especially sex outside of marriage, which many self proclamed Christians do while condemning Homosexuality. God did give you the right of free choice, whether that choice is in keeping with his teachings or not.
2006-08-14 21:07:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not alone. Many people struggle just as you do. It is important to realize that God loves you deeply and does not condemn you for your same-sex feelings and temptations. But He is intensely interested in what you do with them. If you engage in homosexual relations or lust (willful fantasizing about such relations) God is deeply grieved and sets about in a variety of ways to turn you from such a destructive course. When homosexual thoughts arise in your mind, you must reject them and turn your mind to wholesome thoughts (Philippians 4:4-8). The Bible says, "No temptation has seized you except what is common to man. And God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out so that you can stand up under it" (1 Corinthians 10:13). You must discipline your mind as an athlete disciplines his body.
God not only wants to protect you from homosexual behavior, but He wants to begin to meet the deep needs at the root of your same-sex desires. Apart from an occasional miracle, this psychological and spiritual healing which leads toward sexual wholeness does not happen quickly.
Usually, outside help is necessary. For this reason, I would suggest that you contact a Christian ministry which assists men and women who want to deal with homosexual issues in their lives. For information about a ministry which may exist in your general area, you might contact Exodus International North America, P. O. Box 540119, Orlando, Florida, 32854, telephone: (888) 264-0877; or, Homosexuals Anonymous Fellowship Services, P.O. Box 7881, Reading, Pennsylvania 19603, telephone: (610) 376-1146.
I would also encourage you to seek additional guidance from a Christian professional counselor who understands this problem. A book which you may find helpful is "Coming Out of Homosexuality" by Bob Davies and Lori Rentzel. It would be available from a Christian bookstore or by writing to Regeneration Books, P.O. Box 9830, Baltimore, Maryland 21284-9830, telephone: (410) 661-4337. Worship, instruction, and fellowship with other believers in a warm and dynamic Gospel-proclaiming church will also prove invaluable. Don't despair. God has a solution for you, and He promises, "Never will I leave you; never will I forsake you" (Hebrews 13:5).
2006-08-14 20:46:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't give your age, My grandson came to me several months ago(he's ten) and told me he thought he was gay,because he liked seeing men without their shirts on. He was imbarressed but knows he can talk to me about anything.. But when he was 4-5 years old when he danced he had some gay tendcies in his movements... Your feelings will tell you what you want to know... If you are gay,try to find happiness and be discreat.. don't flaunt. Good Luck
2006-08-14 21:06:08 · answer #4 · answered by GreenEYED Beauty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try jacking off to gay porn, and if you can, your either gay or bi.
2006-08-14 20:44:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
use the force man
2006-08-14 21:36:37 · answer #6 · answered by Thunor232 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you look at someone of the opposite sex, and you are attracted, they you are homosexual! if you like both, you are Bisexual. . .
2006-08-14 20:40:39 · answer #7 · answered by Organ Phantom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have no sexual attraction to the opposite sex at all.
2006-08-14 20:42:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i guess when you are feeling attracted to a guy and don't get excited or aroused when you see girls
2006-08-14 20:52:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u are attracted to men!
2006-08-14 20:40:44 · answer #10 · answered by Travis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋