Why do Black Women act like desperate savages when they are rejected? I’ve heard all the whining and pitiful stories about how there are a limited number of educated and successful African American Men…but why do Black Women make matters even worse for themselves by being so hostile. I work, and often socialize in professional environments; and when I do not advance on personal-social invitations from White, Asian, or other cultures of women, they are still very nice, friendly and nothing changes. But when I do not advance on the same invitations from Black Women, they most often behave like I owe them something…and interest is building by the day. They seem to take it very personal and begin to become very rude, combative and hostile like some kind of desperate savage. Then, all of a sudden, I’m the worst person in the world, but before then, I was okay and they would call me every sweet name in the book. (And for those who may ask, I do have a girlfriend) Are these kind of Black Women too crazy to realize that they are pushing me further away?
2006-08-14 13:36:59 · 16 answers · asked by Top P 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Ok next time your asked out on a date simply say "Sorry I can't if m girlfriend found out she would beat you".
Any way are these people at work who have asked you out if there making your life hell because you refused to go on a date with them I think its time that you saw your boss about harsement.
2006-08-14 13:44:40 · answer #1 · answered by Mr Hex Vision 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
What's really sad for you is that you think it's only "black women" that are this way. Keep living and you will discover that the spectrum is racially broader than you believe it to be.
I am in my early 40 something years : ) and none of what you described has ever been exercised by me. I sense that you are slipping into generalizing all black women as angry and bitter but be careful not to assume too much. There are alot of people in the world who do not handle rejection well, don't reduce rejection down to a black woman issue.
2006-08-14 13:50:28 · answer #2 · answered by Shikibeeks 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
how many black women have you rejected? there are some just as hostile white women who don't like rejection . i guess the bottom line is you have to be you and reject these women cause you have a gf , so you have no choice but put up with the after effects. if it were me id just do everything to avoid that person and never mind trying to be friends[ lol i see a guy in the woods has been rejected too thats why he talks trash]
2006-08-14 13:47:54 · answer #3 · answered by jojo 6 · 1⤊ 4⤋
Why is this question geared to only black women? Are you saying that other women don't hate rejection????? Believe me that your facts are screwed up and you need to stop being racist.
All PEOPLE hate rejection.
2006-08-14 13:52:18 · answer #4 · answered by lala<3 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Why does it have to be about BLACK women? I don't think women take rejection so well. Why does everything have to be about the color of a person's skin?
2006-08-14 13:43:12 · answer #5 · answered by julielove327 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Every black women is not the same,maybe i should think you have 4 baby mamas,sell drugs,lie,cheat and steal.
p.s-that was very rude of you to put us all in the same group.
2006-08-14 13:47:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
It isn't just black women. Men take rejection very hard. Ego thing.
2006-08-14 13:53:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
a bit hung up on yourself i'd say. i don't agree with a work you say. i'm half black myself, and i haven't seen what you're talking about. and "pushing you away"?! lol, you said you have a girlfriend. sounds to me like you're the one being rejected around the office. bet they didn't know you had a girlfriend in the first place, that's why there were flirty with you, then they find out you do and for how long and realized you were only trying to play them (that's what this sounds like) they lost respect for you.
2006-08-14 13:46:35 · answer #8 · answered by vanessa w 5 · 2⤊ 3⤋
I think everyone women no matter what the ethnicity does not handle rejection well
2006-08-14 13:40:50 · answer #9 · answered by rachiecakes 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I KNOW EXACTLY WHY. THEY HAVE MEN OF THEIR OWN RACE WHO REJECT THEM FOR A WHITE WOMAN WHO IS MORE TWO FACED THAN THEY'LL EVER BE.
I'VE SEEN HOW THESE WOMEN OPERATE. THEY SAY THEY ONLY DO BLACK MEN AND RESPECT BLACK MEN, AND IT IS ALL THEY HANG OUT WITH, BUT WHEN NO ONE'S AROUND AND AN OLDER PERHAPS ELDERLY BLACK MAN EVEN SO MUCH AS SAYS HELLO TO THEM, THEY EITHER CUT HIM OR CURSE HIM.
THAT'S WHY WHEN I SEE THEIR BLACK LOVERS BEATING THEM IN THE FACE, I TURN AND WALK AWAY LAUGHING.
THE WHITE WOMAN DESERVES IT.
THERE'S TONS OF BEAUTIFUL BLACK WOMEN OUT THERE. GOOD GOD I'D DO ANYTHING TO DATE THEM, BUT THEY ONLY DO OTHER BLACK MEN. SO AS LONG AS WHITE WOMEN (OTHERWISE KNOWN AS WHITE TRASH) GO FOR BLACK MEN, BLACK WOMEN WILL ENDURE REJECTION.
2006-08-14 13:44:38 · answer #10 · answered by aguyinthewoods 4 · 5⤊ 3⤋