i already have 1 child from my ex. why cant i conceive a again. plz give me some advice. i was wondering can sexual stimulents help with my problem. i dont really need them i was just wonderin if it wud help.give me sum advice plzzzzzzzzz. im desperate.
2006-08-14 13:34:45 · 10 answers · asked by mamita200619 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
The general rule of thumb is if you haven't conceived after 1 year, to go to the Dr. Don't worry though. Normal healthy fertile couple's still only have a 25% chance of getting pregnant each month. You could some fertility problems such as not producing enough eggs. Ask your Dr. about CLOMID. It triples the amoung of eggs you produce when you ovulate. There is a VERY high sucess rate with the pill, that when used people will get pregnant within the first 3 months. Start taking pre-natal vitamins and get your husband to start taking vitmain B & E. It will help with his sperm cout.
2006-08-14 19:17:09 · answer #1 · answered by lost_carolina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure that you are ovulating regularly and that you don't have any other health problems. It would be a good idea for your husband to get checked out as well, but because the baby will come from you, you need to pay very close attention to yourself. Again, make sure you are ovulating, that is the key factor. Good Luck
Another thing is that you need not to stress out over this. Alot of stress can also put a toll on your body. Relax yourself, work with the BBT Chart and don't take this as a chore. Have fun and take your time. I know a year and half is along time now...DON'T STRESS
2006-08-15 08:50:05 · answer #2 · answered by s_ruiz83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I conceived two of my children right away and one of them took me over a year to conceive. I think it all amounts to timing and everything. (Also, if nothing works you could have hubby's sperm count checked...just a suggestion.) Before you go do all that though, I would first try this....
go buy the book Taking Charge of Your Fertility.
I thought this was a really good book about the reproductive system and it really helped me get to know my body and how things work a lot better.
You could try taking your temp every morning and charting. I found that http://www.fertilityfriend.com was very helpful in charting.
I have also heard that drinking green tea and/or grapefruit juice can help thicken cervical mucous and that can help things out too. Sounds gross, I know, but at this point you are willing to try anything, right?
Try not to stress to much about it, I know, easier said then done. And most importantly have fun! Make sure you are just thinking about baby making when you are doing the dance! hehe.
Best of luck! and baby vibes!!!!!
2006-08-14 13:41:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
Our situation sounds exactly the same. I also have a child from an ex. We have also been ttc since Jan 2005. I also have irregular periods. I have been to the doc and he said that I am ok. It is very frustrating for both of us. I don't know if sexual stimulants will help but I have heard of a couple of things like ovulex and fertilaid that are suppose to help. I haven't tried them but I am thinking about it. It seems like we have alot in common. If you wanna chat please Email me
olivia_andrew69@yahoo.com
Hope to hear from you
2006-08-15 08:58:20 · answer #4 · answered by olivia_andrew69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 02:19:00 · answer #5 · answered by montijo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the doctor to find out if you are okay. Your husband could be the one that is the problem. Another factor is to keep your stress levels low. This can prevent you from conceiving if you are stressed out. Try to keep it low and try to eat a good diet. If you haven't conceived in about 6 months I would get tested and get my husband tested to be sure everything is okay. Good luck.
2006-08-14 13:47:14 · answer #6 · answered by Medical and Business Information 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first you gotta do it when the times right but before you do anything you need to make sure you and him both an concive then if oyu can an still it aint working check w/ a doc to see if there is anouther way to concive and it still be his babyu kk good luck hope bunches that it works out for you kk =)
2006-08-14 13:42:07 · answer #7 · answered by none of your biz. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that a medical exam of you to be sure that things are still in good working order
and also your husband can have a rather less invasive sperm count to be sure there arent any obvious problems like that
i can sympathise as we managed to have one child (now 8) and have been trying to have another for many years since our 8 year old has been born
2006-08-14 13:40:24 · answer #8 · answered by Aslan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
were you on the depo at all? my doc told me every year you are on the depo it can take a year and a half to concieve my husband and i have been trying for about two years i used a handy ovulation chat at www.babyzone.com good luck to you
2006-08-14 16:44:15 · answer #9 · answered by tracy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check your hubby and relax, it will happen. Good luck.
2006-08-14 22:07:19 · answer #10 · answered by Butterfly girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋