I used to like boobs and stuffs when I was young. However, as I got into middle school, i was interested in men. That interest grew so strong that i was greatly attracted to them. I still cannot deny that strong attraction. However, I know i was not bi because women do not turn me on. Has anyone have the same experience as I do?
2006-08-14 13:23:35 · 16 answers · asked by Travis 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You are HUMAN. We find that we are attracted to different things, for different reasons, at different times in our lives. What you are experiencing is totally normal. Welcome to life. When you deny yourself, then it becomes a problem. Life was meant to be lived for yourself, not others. Be open, be free to feel, and love whoever you wish.
2006-08-14 13:45:55 · answer #1 · answered by Michael 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your experience was somewhat Kinsey and soemwhat Freud. Kinsey's use of the spectrum where everyone falls into some bit of bisexuality and Freud's due to your desire for the feminine based on the breast-feeding bond between you and your mother. Though we don't always follow many people are still looking for "mommy and daddy" characteristics in their partners. Your attraction was based upon that bond between you and your mother, it was not a change from straight to gay just as a man who discovers a little later in life that he is actually gay has not gone from being straight to becoming gay. The guy would just have been going on what society has taught him to like and later realizing that he doesn't.
2006-08-14 13:33:04 · answer #2 · answered by laydlo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, I understand. I was Straight till I was about 18. I still like looking at women. Some of them are very beautiful.
2006-08-14 18:28:35 · answer #3 · answered by kiz_ma_az 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When i was in high school i used to hate people like me,weird huh?
I really don't know what happened to me along the way-just started changing everything day by day-now i can say without a doubt i am a lesbian.
2006-08-14 15:03:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if you could say I was straight before. But for a long time I lead a straight life. And then one day POOF I was full out lesbian and no longer hiding from it. I can now fully appreciate who I am.
2006-08-14 13:32:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not personally, but I have a few friends who were the straightest guys you would ever meet in high school. Now they are gay. Some people just can't admit it to themselves or refuse to admit it until later in life.
2006-08-14 13:31:47 · answer #6 · answered by . 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was younger i thought i liked boobs and woman. I even had porn mags with woman in and could 'enjoy myself' while looking at them. I even had girlfriends that i slept with. However met a guy fell in love and i now know I was always gay.
2006-08-14 13:35:48 · answer #7 · answered by Daniel L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i was the same in middle school i was into the boys but when i hit highschool i was taking a look at the girls and i havent stoped looking at them yet. men are still attracting towards me but im hella hella attracted towards women
2006-08-14 14:44:54 · answer #8 · answered by orange_crush_05 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i used to like guys when i was younger and in high school. but something always held me back in relation to being intimate with men and finding them sexually attractive. i guess i denied my feelings towards girls until my late teens. i know for sure i am a lesbian.
2006-08-14 13:31:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh Yeah...same story
2006-08-14 15:53:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋