I don't care if my daughter turns out to be lesbian or not (though I really don't think she is). I'm worried because this can't possibly be an equal relationship.
2006-08-14 13:22:21 · 24 answers · asked by Minnesota Mom 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
If it was with an older man I would take him to court. But I honestly don't believe a woman can take advantage of a younger girl. If anything this is just a phase she will grow out of.
2006-08-14 13:28:42 · update #1
Find out the facts instead of going on unconfirmed information.
2006-08-14 13:26:30 · answer #1 · answered by holidayspice 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all why do you think that?? Who did you hear this from? Is it some one you trust? If you truly believe this you need to talk with your daughter openly with no accusations. Tell her what you have heard and make sure she knows you are not angry. If she insists that she is not having a sexual relationship with a 20 yr old woman then you need to trust her. Unless you want to hire detectives or not let her out of the house there really isn't anything you can do but trust your daughter is making good decisions
2006-08-14 20:31:05 · answer #2 · answered by Tonya P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, you should definately be concerned. A 20 year old woman can take adveantage of a young girl. She could be raping your daughter for all you know.
You are being a bad mother as far as i'm concerned.
You should take this woman to court
Talk to your daughter
And talk to the woman
Call the police and confront them
You have no parenting skillz, you obviously don't care about your daughter's life or safety!
2006-08-14 20:35:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
UH... Pull rank as her mother and tell her exactly how it is going to be PERIOD! A 13 yr old GIRL dating a 20 yr old SUPPOSED WOMAN??? Call the cops too, that is WRONG!
AND YES A 20 YR OLD WOMAN CAN RAPE A 13 YR OLD. How in the world did this get started with out you knowing anyway???
2006-08-14 20:28:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her about it! Don't accuse or berate her, but you need to talk to her, not us. If it turns out to be true, put that 20 year old in jail. A 13 year old girl shouldn't be involved with ANY 20 year old, male or female, and that woman knows it.
Good luck
2006-08-14 20:28:20 · answer #5 · answered by Queen D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Treat it as you might a 20 year-old man that is guilty of statutory rape. Tell her she is too old for a relationship with your daughter and if she doesn't cut off the relationship immediately, you will report her to the police.
2006-08-14 20:28:26 · answer #6 · answered by tina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay. do you live in a box? do something. maybe like don't let her be in contact with the older woman. your daughter is 13 which means you can tell her what do to and who not to see.
2006-08-14 20:39:55 · answer #7 · answered by Gabriella A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break it up! You are the parent. She is a minor. Tell the older woman you will press charges.
2006-08-14 20:29:12 · answer #8 · answered by helixburger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing to do is talked to your daughter.. be much more caring dont show her your freaking out with their situation just be calm.. just tell her your just there for her.. 13 yrs old she might be exploring herself.. tell her that.. you should guide her so she can find out what she really wants with her life.. goodluck!
2006-08-14 20:31:20 · answer #9 · answered by maria07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
13 and 20 no...u need to report this to someone if they are messing around cause u can go to jail if someone finds out and u know about it..
2006-08-14 20:26:40 · answer #10 · answered by Deshawn & Keshawn's mom 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋