In high school my sibling chased off my boyfriends.( Without my knowlege) After high school, I married only guy with enough guts to date me( I loved him then) Now that I know why guys didn't ask me out, I have alot of new emotions to deal with, including potiontal love for former classmate. What do I do!!!!!
2006-08-14 13:10:59 · 16 answers · asked by wildfiremmm 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Don't you think I should have been able to Choose who I dated Insted of my sibling doing it for me(without asking!)
2006-08-14 13:20:03 · update #1
i am sure u didnt marry your husband coz he was the only guy who had the courage to have asked you out then, like you said you loved him, so it shouldnt matter that your sibblings managed to deprive you of an 'active' social life, it was probably for your own good. so i think you should call them out on it, grumble a little bit, eventually laugh over it and MOVE ON with your life, unless ofcoz u r not happy wit your life and u married ur husband coz he was the only one available at the time. (if thats the case then thats a different story all together. u all have your own faults and the one with the most faults is probably u, coz the bottom line is, it should always be your choice and your decision who to spend your life with, no one elses)
2006-08-14 23:18:08 · answer #1 · answered by sultana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my goodness. I am seriously in the SAME situation, except my brother's older than me. The only thing I really have to say is just wait until you're 18. That's exactly what I'm doing. And if you can't wait that long, just ignore him. Pretend he doesn't exist. Whatever he says, don't say anything back. Don't let him hurt you because what he says DOESN'T matter. He's just jealous of you. You are so much more than him. And you have to realize that that. My dad also does nothing as long as there's no physical abuse involved. He sometimes joins in actually. If your parents do that too, screw them then. Ignore them too. They're not worth your time. If they don't bother to respect you, then why should you even respect them?? I know it's probably killed your self-esteem and now you have all these low-confidence and psychological issues. I know I have. But use that as an advantage. If you don't have any friends because of that, then so what? Just focus on your studies. I'm going to be soooo rich in the future after working my a** off in high school and I'm going to flaunt my money in front of their faces while they'll be begging at my feet. You have to realize that you're so much more than him.
2016-03-27 01:55:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should confront your sibling. Talk it out with them. Confirm that they know how wrong they were. Talk to your husband and try to work things out with him also. Don't get a divorce just because there could be old boyfriends you may still have feelings for. Reality is that they have already moved on with there lives. Ask your sibling why they did what they did. Although you want to stay mad at them forever, life is too short to hold grudges like that. The best thing you can do is try to move on with your life and leave the past in the past. Whatever happens, happens, so try to live your life to it's fullest. Good luck!
2006-08-14 13:22:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone here is so wrong ,just because you made a commitment doesn't mean that that comittment holds you into something forever.Do what makes you happy not what makes others happy,if you want out of your marriage beacause you know longer love him then go for it.In twenty years do you want to have to live with the fact that beacause a few people thought you should you wasted 20 years with a man you didn't want to be with.You will have to live with this regret not the people putting answear.Do what you want,make yourself happy,whatever that means.
2006-08-14 13:20:26 · answer #4 · answered by movin12006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think things happen for a reason... maybe they were all chased off because they weren't really right for you anyway - they could have caused more damage than good, you never know. you need to figure out your life now and stop living in the past.
2006-08-14 13:17:14 · answer #5 · answered by Tally 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow ur sibling did that wow if my brother did that i would probly do the same lol jk i would never do that but my brother does get jealous when i talk to guys. U should talk to ur brother that is ok u know who is the right man for u, not him lol.
2006-08-14 13:20:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it. All the other guys were too chicken, this one stuck it out.
2006-08-14 13:15:40 · answer #7 · answered by Manny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
skip the "potential" love...you are married
get even with the siblings though
2006-08-14 14:54:14 · answer #8 · answered by Library Eyes 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing you have someone that you love right im sure you can figure out some kind of way to un off one of their girlfriends now
2006-08-14 13:15:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did say you were married?
Grow up and respect your vows.
2006-08-14 13:16:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋