My last three relationship with girls it always ended up with her telling me she loves me heaps, but only in a friend way. it has been upsetting for me, as i feel that i am often used by women - that they get what they want from me and then they dont want it anymore. what should i do? im becoming so jaded.
2006-08-14 12:59:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
i am a lesbian
2006-08-14 13:01:02 · update #1
Stop being a door mat.. This time don't be so needed. You need to find women who want what you want. Don't rush into anything, especially a relationship. Take more time to see if the common factors are in line. Too many times women hook up and discover they weren't meant for each other after they have started a relationship, then comes stuck. Stop giving so much, hold stuff back until you know its reciprocated. You shouldn't be jaded, you should be learning for your relationships instead of repeating them. You need to change your vicious cycle before you cover your beautiful heart with a big flip pin wall
2006-08-14 13:15:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well next time make sure the girl is all about U before U give up the nookie..Sounds there's more to this but since I don't know the full details just be more wary next time.. I know it is very easy to get attached to a woman, and it's very easy to get hurt..That's a part of life! G luck ..
2006-08-14 20:14:19 · answer #2 · answered by quizzed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, for starters, stop trying to be something you're not ( Suicide Blonde ) and start being a woman. When you come out, she'll see you, if you hide behind a false face, you lose something special.....And I'm a straight guy.! Good Luck!
2006-08-14 20:03:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes Sweetie,you now know how a man feels. Sucks! Huh?
2006-08-14 20:31:54 · answer #4 · answered by Hooch A 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Heynow!!! Life is just that way...keep on trying...hopefuly you will find the one you are looking for....if not at least you get to have some really hot sex...right???!!!
2006-08-14 20:09:30 · answer #5 · answered by budlowsbro420 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to relationship hell. Have you tried being friends first before dating? I've found that it's best to be friends first before sinking into a relationship.
2006-08-14 20:04:22 · answer #6 · answered by mat 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well no kidding your a lesbo
make sure you are reading her right and make sure she feels the same way about you
2006-08-14 20:03:01 · answer #7 · answered by LaurLaur 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow!!!!!!!!!! looks like your the guy this time.
2006-08-14 20:04:28 · answer #8 · answered by ...*Jen*... 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your a lesbien
2006-08-14 20:03:52 · answer #9 · answered by MARKOS KRUGER 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
welcome to dating, guess what your the guy this time.
2006-08-14 20:02:54 · answer #10 · answered by gsschulte 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋