How do u know for sure that u luv someone and are not lying to yourself?

Question

I wont write anything here. Coz if I will, your answers will be biased. So let's not talk about me. Letz talk abut us and Life.

Answer 1

Why do you need to know for sure?

You want to be happy, right? If you believe that you love someone, then that will probably make you happy. If you constantly worry about it, it will not make you happy. So let's try to make the most out of it, whenever you are with someone you like.

Answer 2

I need help with this too..... it all feel so real it's very difficult to tell a lie from the truth and the truth from a lie....

Personally I just believe you just have believe self and God; and don't look for love outward but inward because when love and peace is within Truth is produced.

I know there are many time the same hand I fed someone they use it to slap me in my face but I just hold on and keep believing someday people will get tired too old or sick to continue to hurt one another from lying for their selfish gain; but I hope they will learn before they cannot enjoy the love we have within to share with others. Beside it's enough people I don't know why people wont stay in their circle............

Answer 3

i like this from captain corellis mandolin:

"You have to work out whether your roots have become so entwined together that it is inconceivable that you should ever part. Because this is what love is. Love is not breathlessness, it is not excitement, it is not the promulgation of promises of eternal passion. That is just being in love which any of us can convince ourselves we are. Love itself is what is left over when being in love has burned away, and this is both an art and a fortunate accident. Your mother and I had it, we had roots that grew towards each other underground, and when all the pretty blossom had fallen from our branches we found that we were one tree and not two."

Answer 4

there's no real way to know. You just do.
there are so many types of love, though. I have been very lucky in my life to have experianced some of the different ways to love a person.
There's passion, there's respect, even obligitory love. What's always defined it for me was the way when something happened all I wanted to do was call my b/f and tell him. It sounds kinda silly, but it's different for everyone.

Answer 5

The only way u can be lying to your self is if you are so desperate that you don't wanna be alone so u make Ur self think u love them. If you are lying to your self to you will come to and realize that its not right and get out. If its true love you will know:) hope that helps ya out......

Answer 6

You don't. You can easily lie to yourself. The fact you went on about not giving more information says you might know if you are lying already.....

Answer 7

Ok, First of all you should be able to let your partner walk through a room of attracted people and not feel one ounce of jealousy. You know they love you and you love them and thats all you need to give you peace at mind

Answer 8

my answer to that is TIME!!!! the only way to know if it is true love is by time. and making sure that the other person is willing to go 100 percent for you and that goes both ways. then you just gotta go with your gut after that. you will know when the time is right cause you will feel it!!

Answer 9

Try to think with your mind and not your heart. If you try to see beyond the emotion it helps to figure things out. Emotions tend to skew things. After you figure it out let the love take over (or not)

Answer 10

Well if it comes to the point that you absolutely will die for this person. Like take a bullet for them, then you love them.