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how in the world do i ask a girl out

i've never done it before girls you r good at these questions what would you do


i really need HELP

2006-08-14 12:37:04 · 18 answers · asked by Blondy 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting Adolescent

girls only (only they know how to deal with this stuff)

2006-08-14 12:56:57 · update #1

18 answers

First of all, you have to be sure that there is a mutual attraction, otherwise you are sure to be rejected. Spend some time with her, talk to her, wait until you get a feeling that she is interested in you, then go ahead and ask her if she'd like to get together sometime. If she says yeah, that sounds great, you can actually ask her for a specific date, like well how about this Saturday. Make sure you give her a little advanced notice, not tomorrow night...Exchange phone numbers and tell her you will give her a call the night before. Good luck!

2006-08-14 12:50:45 · answer #1 · answered by Cynthia 5 · 0 0

Listen. I was asked out once. I was on a bus and a boy who was sitting next to my sister asked me out. I wasn't embarassed, but it wasn't the right time. I think it was nice that he asked me, but it hurt me to say know. I don't like it when I crush someone's feelings. So don't be hard on yourself if she says no. Just, when she isn't busy, ask her to go out sometime. Look her in the eyes. That is a nice start. In the hall at school, or when she has dropped a book. Go near her when she is at a lunch table and ask her if she has a minute. Then walk her somewhere and ask her. Or ask her right there. Practice before you ask her out. Every way possible, with friends, at a parade, anything. It helps to be prepared. You seem like a really nice guy, so I put all my confidence in you. You just go ahead and ask her out. Good Luck! ;)

P.S. Make sure you like her mind, and the way she is passionate about things. Not her looks.

2006-08-14 20:19:22 · answer #2 · answered by otter7 5 · 0 0

Well first you should be yourself and just get to know her. After you've hung out with her several times tell her that a couple of your friends are going to the movies and you wanted to know if she wanted to go. That way it doesn't start off as a technical date, but it ends up that way.

Girls don't like this as much, but it is easier for you. Just ask her online. That way she doesn't know you are nervous. And you can just come out and type it. It is MUCH less difficult

good luck!

2006-08-14 21:22:14 · answer #3 · answered by kdancergirl 3 · 0 0

ok so first find out if shes not going out with anyone then like for example at school when she walking down the hall ALONE go catch up to her and say hey ive been looking for you hey i was wondering if you what to hang out in_day______or___day____to the ( movies,park,skating,in bikes or anything you can think of and then if she says yes take her home and if she says i had a wonderful time or it was fun or something like that ask her if she wants to go out another time then things will go along and thats thats before you ask her practice in a mirror or something

2006-08-14 21:22:19 · answer #4 · answered by i FOUND MA PRiNCE CHARMiNG♥ 3 · 0 0

Don't be shy or scared she's gonna reject you ,cause if u ask her straight then she'll know she can trust you. Get her in a quite place start a slow conversation then tell her u think shes cute or sumthin but skip the corny pick up lines ,then just ask away

2006-08-14 21:01:31 · answer #5 · answered by Lizzy 1 · 0 0

okay well yea make sure you really like HER not her body and do some home work see if shes been out with other guys latley, and you know ask her to something she would find fun. and ask her out when its just yall two- dont blurt it out in a crowded hallway or anything. BREATH and be yourself if shes worth it shell like you to. just relax and keep it normal!

2006-08-14 20:16:04 · answer #6 · answered by spurschick2021 1 · 0 0

Just be yourself, be honest and tell her you think she's sweet. Ask her if she wants to grab a coffee some time (and make sure you pay!)

None of those ridiculous, corny pick-up lines cause they just turn girls off.

Good luck

2006-08-14 19:44:53 · answer #7 · answered by sweets 2 · 0 0

You: Hey _______! What's up?
Girl: Nothin' really.
You: I just wanted to know somethin'.
Girl: Sure, what is it?
You: Do you wanna hang out sometime? Like pizza or somethin'?
Girl: Sure. I'd love to!

Just remember, the worst she could say is no.

2006-08-14 22:18:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

two rules/tips. . . be casual, be smooth. . . and breathing helps. Don't act like you are afraid, because we can smell fear. Go up to a girl you like, strike up a casual conversation, slip in "would you like to. . . " and ask her out to a movie, dinner, coffee, concerts, any thing. If your confident (with out being cocky) things should work.

2006-08-14 19:49:10 · answer #9 · answered by Rockerbaby 2 · 0 0

Become friends with her, not necessarily best friends, but someone she would say "hi" to in the hallways. Then go up to her one day and say "Hey, so do you want to hang out on Friday? Maybe we can go ___." And take it from there.

2006-08-14 19:46:06 · answer #10 · answered by holidayspice 5 · 1 0

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