From 3rd grade to 6th grade i hade a girl friend that was way awsome, we had so many things in common but one day she broke up with me, and later i found out it was because of her friends. well im in 8th grade now and me and her are good friends again and im starting to have feelings for her again. but i dont know f she feels the same. what should i do?
2006-08-14 12:32:58 · 38 answers · asked by blondguy@verizon.net 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just tell her how you feel.
2006-08-14 12:37:09 · answer #1 · answered by divinevegeta 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stay as friends. You can also go ahead and tell her about what you are starting to feel, that way, she'll let you know if she is feeling the same or if you should forget about it and just see her as a friend.
If she happens to have feelings for you, you should be straight about what happened in the past. Although you are pretty young, you should tell her that if she is going to be with you, she has to trust you and not just go by what her friends tell her. Good luck!
2006-08-14 12:41:34 · answer #2 · answered by metztli99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to get to know her again she is in 8th grade now and perhaps her interest are different now i would try to get to know her again see what her likes and dislikes are she is probaly trying to figure you out also this time i would take it slow and see what develop don't worry i am sure if she like you she will let you know if not outright by little signs etc the important thing is that you guys build on friendship first good luck to you both!!
2006-08-14 12:39:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey man your only in 8th grade you have a long life ahead of you and there are alot of other girls out there. My saying is friends for life don't do anything
2006-08-14 12:45:15 · answer #4 · answered by gerry d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT i repeat DO NOT ask her how she feels.
just hang out with her and be a little flirtatious when you can and see what happens.
if you ask her about her feelings she is going to lose intrest in you.
girls say they like that stuff, but in my experience they treat you like a creep and talk about you to other girls, now you're a creep to girls you havent even talked to! or she will walk all over you if you act too "nice" or things never move forward and you become "friends"
at your age girls like a guy to be nice but not too nice. take my advice, hang out with her and be cool. make a move to kiss her if you think the time is right. if she likes you it will happen, if she doesnt you'll find out. remember, be cool dont act like a spaz or she definately wont be into you.
2006-08-14 12:43:11 · answer #5 · answered by Dr. Z 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yall need to get a grip and figure out what you want later. If you jump into wanting her to quickly you could scare her away. You probably just think you like her like that because you're lonely and need someone to be with you.
2006-08-14 12:40:30 · answer #6 · answered by Erin the ROCKSTAR! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for one thing, you should just ask her if she feels the same way..... another thing, you should buy her presants for her birthday Christmas, ect. ( by the way i'm in 7th. grade) right now people in schools in ny, and other states have been being REALLY romantic, just one thing, if you do go with romance, PLEASE dont be to mushy, girls honestly dont like that, if you have any more trouble, just post it on here, i will try 2 help, more than i did now( if i did help )
2006-08-14 12:40:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well watch the way she acts around u. even try asking her if she still has feelings for u and if she says no stay friends r better than nothing!!! and if she says she does have feelings for u then ask her out.
2006-08-14 12:38:57 · answer #8 · answered by beautimus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im a girl and ive been in that situation before with a boyfriend if you really like her its not doing you any good to keep it a secret what have you got to lose by telling her give me a call @ tylerwillis137113@yahoo.com
2006-08-14 12:40:59 · answer #9 · answered by Samantha S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be like hey im startin 2 have feelings 4 u again i was wonderin f u would go out wit me. maybe not like that but somethin like it good luck
2006-08-14 12:38:05 · answer #10 · answered by hotcakelaugh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have some guts, you will go to this chick and tell her how you feel, and hopefully she feels the same way about you.
You will never know unless you give it a try, and dont be afraid.
GOOD LUCK
2006-08-14 12:42:49 · answer #11 · answered by Your best friend 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋