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I am single masterdbating since times. I still, saved my birth for "someone special";
In young age we all are fascinated and allusified to have it and it never seems enough.
We thrive for it. I wonder how intercourse experience differ from masterbation; for someone who never had one. I mean what is there to joy in intercourse that is missing in masterbating. Please donot tell me 2 bodies involve and crap. Is it worth waiting till I meet some special or I should jst do it to feel it?

2006-08-14 12:29:27 · 19 answers · asked by VJ 1 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

19 answers

it is great of you to strive to wait. But not worth your loosing mentality. If you find yourself very attached to someone but not sure. And they are willing then go for it. In today day and age. There really isn't many virgins. And if the right one is there and really loves you there not going to be threatened by your past

2006-08-20 13:58:39 · answer #1 · answered by Shelly t 6 · 0 0

Did you ever just want to hug someone you like a lot? Well, it is the best, closest hug you can get and it feels good to be that close. If you don't feel special about the person, it leaves a depressing after feeling, like eating too much junk food or spending too much money. You lose a piece of your self for just another orgasm. You would have been better off masterbating.
At least let the first one be special so you will know what to set the standard to.

2006-08-21 10:15:47 · answer #2 · answered by Jacqueline 3 · 0 0

Kudos to you for waiting. I see more and more young people waiting for someone special and I think it's wonderful. The joy in intercourse is the act of making love to someone you truly care about. Believe me when I say it is worth the wait. I'm a product of the 60's and "free love". Most of us couldn't wait to have sex and when it was over it was so disappointing. Years later I found out how wonderful it could be.

2006-08-14 12:49:37 · answer #3 · answered by blustang04 2 · 0 0

It is apples and oranges, hard to compare. Masturbation can be lots of fun when you are young and inexperienced. But there is nothing like being inside a woman. The warmth and texture are such that there is nothing else quite like it. Further, some get great pleasure from giving pleasure. The look and sounds of your partner are priceless.

2006-08-14 13:14:14 · answer #4 · answered by bigjohn B 7 · 0 0

I too went on my honeymoon as a virgin man. It's the best gift anyone, male or female, could give their true love and life partner. I congratulate you and urge you to continue to wait. As far a masterbating, I don't think it hurt me any. But I do wear glasses.

2006-08-18 11:36:32 · answer #5 · answered by Big Bama Fan 2 · 0 0

You are a rare wonderfull boy. :-) I hope you keep up good work :-)....this is what I used to tell my younger brother :-) wait for the one you truely love, but don't expect her to be the last, Nowadays people are 'INDULDGE' in 'enjoying SEX' too much.
Sex is not the thing that make us really happy, it is the thing that we use it to 'RELEASE' the negative energy and to 'CREATE' another 'Positive Energy'......but we need to do it in the 'RIGHT WAYS, RIGHT TIME and with the RIGHT PERSON' :-) Then the benefit of this 'LUST' will occour......otherwise it will drag you down to lots of problems :-)

2006-08-19 22:35:53 · answer #6 · answered by SERENE 2 · 0 0

I would wait until you find someone special because you don't get the next morning regret that comes with one night stands. Plus, it is emotionally fullfilling as well as sexually.

2006-08-14 12:56:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

9 times out of 10 people who saved themselves for the "right" person winds up wondering later on in life....the trick is trying to figure out whether you are the 1 out of 10...or part of the 9 ....hmmmm

2006-08-21 11:39:07 · answer #8 · answered by huh ??? 2 · 0 0

if your saving yourself good for you. ill let you know something so when you get there you wont be acting all crazy. it feels nice tight and warm. its better than masturbation, just to warn you. when you first get it you are going to explode real fast tan you are going to want it all the time. you are going to forget about jacking off.

2006-08-20 07:46:50 · answer #9 · answered by super mom 1 · 0 0

you've waited this long, might as well wait for that special person to share that special moment with. trust me IT will be well worth it.

2006-08-20 04:55:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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