I lost my virginity when I was 14 , was that wrong ?

Answer 1

Since your asking...Must be, in your mind
In my opinion......YES

Answer 2

Most people who didn't lose it at about that age didn't get the chance. Some of the old fuddy-duddys who think that sex should be like the bible says should provide a technical explanation of how a virgin can give birth!!

I lived in a hill-tribe village in Thailand where it was common for people to be married at 14.

We are pushed around by stupid laws, and yet we feel we are free.
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Bliar has passed 3000 restrictive laws since he came to power, and people have no realisation that there freedom is being reduced gradually, day by day.

If you are brave enough to ignore what the other mind-controlled morons think, and follow your own feelings, then you know that you can forgive yourself for anything, and it doesn't matter a hoot what other people think, as long as you hurt nobody.

Answer 3

I also lost my virginity at 14 but only because I thought that if I did not give in he would find someone who did, being older and wiser now I realise that I was cajoled into it, but he still loves me after 3 marriages and 30 years, so I guess I made an impression.

Answer 4

I lost mine at 16 but was too drunk to remember anything about it at all. I had met the person that day and it turned out that we had little in common and within a fortnight had parted ways. This was amongst the better relationships I have had.
If you had a fun time, liked the person you did it with and took the appropriate precautions then I think you may have made a better choice than I did.
I don't think things of this nature are subject to objective morality - rather they are subjective and should be reviewed in context of the circumstances.

Answer 5

I was raised with different beliefs so I can't truthfully say whether it was the right descision or not. People have got to follow their own paths but I believe 14 is a little too young to do so because you never know what kind of scum is out there just looking to take advantage of someone's innocence and ever since my "niece" was born I sometimes thinklike a parent but if you were my daughter I would listen and love you no matter what.

Answer 6

Stuff the marriage idiots remind them of the divorce rare...

No you were no morally wrong... more think along the lines of nearly got hit by a train as crossing where you should not.

Whats most important is proper contraception was used, you were incontrol and really you should have ben an experet in foreplay first...

Plus you put the guy in danger of a nasty arrest... but were you in love?

It does not more you a fornicator whore or immoral... Bullying is immoral you just took risks to early

Answer 7

Yes, what was you thinking I am 17and still am. I hope you know that the boy yoou have done it with most likely will not be with yo later on life.Hopefully he is a good young man and wont put you out there or even worse start callling you names that are not pleasing. Mosdt of all I hope he does not go to your school because he might get mad at you oneday and tell everyone. I hope it does not chang you as a person

Answer 8

absolutely not. As long as you were comfortable and happy with it. I know scores of people who were that age, some even younger. such matters should be up to you, and your choice alone. That said i hope it was a memorable experience, and you weren't forced or pressured into it. Sex is like most other things it can get better through experience, and depending on the situation. Dont let others with their skewed morality or forced dicatorial moralistic codes make you feel bad about yourself. And above all else enjoy your self, your experiences and take care. x

Answer 9

Dear dear heart now that you have lose your innocence so young now you will not be able to share this moment with your husband on your wedding night.
But don't despare dear God can and will forgive you.
What you did well yes it was wrong but more than that it was a very tragic lose, never to be regained.
Now here is the tricky part just don't do it any more ask For God the Father in heaven for help and he will be there by your side.
If your heart is heavy because you feel ashame give to Jesus.
I am not sure if you believe in Jesus are not but he still loves you.
I will never cast any stones at you, how else will God forgive me if I go around casting stone at others for some bad decidions that they made.
Hunny take heart if you don't do this any more there is plenty of forgiveness for you from heaven above.

Answer 10

I was 14 when I lost my verginity I am 22 know amd I married that man and had two bueatiful children. I think you are only wrong if you do it for the wrong reasons

Answer 11

i dont think its wrong if it felt right.i lost mine at 14 when i was 6 months into my first serious relationship which went on to last 1 year 8 months.sometimes i think i should have waited but then i think well it was my decision so i must have believed i was ready at the time.