2006-08-14 12:14:53 · 13 answers · asked by myeia2003 1 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
Try a pocket rocket and move on from there.
2006-08-14 12:21:39 · answer #1 · answered by Simple green is people! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
here are a few things you should ask yourself...
Do I feel obligated to have sex ?
Do I feel dirty, while, during or after sex ?
Have my feelings changed towards my husband?
If none of these spark anything then I think it has a lot to do with the dramatic change that took place 5 years ago for you. You probably have a lot more " TO DO" on your list and if you work then your living a 24 hour job. You may of lost the spark but if you love him then find out what works. Try new things. Its easier said then done but with effort and love you both will appreciate it. If you just feel numb or unaroused then maybe you can see Gynecologist or find out what you can do...it will all be ok as long as you get up and do something..no worries you are not alone
2006-08-14 19:29:42 · answer #2 · answered by falana_henson@sbcglobal.net 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you were about the same age that I was when I had my first child (15 0r 16). If this is true, your decreased sexual drive may be associated with you feeling overwhelmed. Maybe you had to grow up too fast. Or maybe you engaged in intimacy with an inexperienced partner (or one that was not focused on you). These are just two of the many reasons that could cause a decrease in your libido. Be patient with yourself and do not allow anyone to emotionally force you into an intimate encounter until you are ready. It is your body and your right to be at peace within before giving it out.
2006-08-14 19:37:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, as a woman you go through those moments where you are just not interested. Then there are those moments that the man that's trying to stimulate you just is not pleasing enough to get the job done not saying that he does not have the equipment and is well learned on the subject. It just your tired of the same owe run of the meal and you need some extra stimulation and he's not coming across with it. Bottom line there is nothing wrong with you.
2006-08-14 23:56:58 · answer #4 · answered by Big Mama 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can seek help if you want, but I believe it is motherhood that has changed you. Once a baby is born, life as you knew it is over. There is never enough hours in the day and your work is never over. You don't punch out at 5:00 and leave your work behind. It is there when you go to bed, and there when you wake up. Sex becomes something you put on the back burner, fair or not.
2006-08-14 19:23:42 · answer #5 · answered by jbpammy004 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have heard that after having a child reduces a woman sex drive but it could be other issues with that. I would see a doctor just to make sure having the baby didn't really mess up your hormones or something.
2006-08-14 19:24:26 · answer #6 · answered by Autumn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
isnt 16 or 17 really young to have kids?
Kids are great fun but you do have to put aside a lot of your own personal amibitions and dreams sometimes.....I suppose that you;re too tired to think abt sex.
2006-08-15 10:19:47 · answer #7 · answered by Melissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With me it was before AND after. I did not seek help. It's as normal as anything else.
2006-08-14 19:20:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no problem that i see as long as it don't get out of control like sleeping with just any one and always use protection
2006-08-14 21:20:27 · answer #9 · answered by thing s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex is natural instinct; try to be happy with your partner basing on your needs.
2006-08-14 19:24:18 · answer #10 · answered by prince47 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋