i'm not sure if she's really infertile-- but she's been trying for about a year now, and the doctor's are doing lots of tests, and trying to find a way to get her pregnant, but it's not happening..
i got pregnant by accident, and i don't know how i can tell her (i'm 3 months now). i don't want to be insensitive to her, but i want her to share my joy because i am happy, even though i didn't do it on purpose...
any suggestions?
2006-08-14 11:59:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
You need to tell her before the news gets around to her. Maybe you could get together for lunch and you can tell her that you wanted to let her know the good news because she is your best friend and you want her to be a big part of your child's life.
2006-08-14 12:03:02 · answer #1 · answered by every1lovesamixedgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Way You Told Us Just Tell Her The Same Thing...she Will Understand You I Hope So..Talk 2 Her N Tell Her How You Feel..
2006-08-14 19:03:48 · answer #2 · answered by ❀Mother Of 2❀ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It took me 3 years to fall pregnant (i am 11 weeks now) and in that time that happened to me a number of times. I was always happy for my pregnant friends and sister as i knew how hard it can be to fall pregnant sometimes.
She might have a cry but just be there to give her a hug if she does.
2006-08-14 19:12:13 · answer #3 · answered by Boo Boo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best friend and I were in the same situation several years ago. I dont think that she will believe you are being insensitive if you tell her. I think she will share your joy. Sometimes, if we feel that it is our destiny to be parents, and we cant have children, its a sign that we were meant for another path, such as adoption. Thats what I did.
2006-08-14 19:07:22 · answer #4 · answered by Lorie D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of my good friends can't have children and she stopped talking to me when my son turned 2 years old. She said that she couldn't handle it anymore. With that being said, tell your friend gently (don't throw it in her face) and depending on her reaction reassure her by saying "the doctor are doing tests on you, keep trying and relax etc... There is no 'good' way to tell her, unfortunately.
2006-08-14 19:16:54 · answer #5 · answered by Erika 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
BE SUPPORTIVE of course its going to be hard and uncomfortable but support is the best thing you can give your friend especially now give her hope be there for her. when you tell make sure that she knows that things will work out
2006-08-14 19:18:08 · answer #6 · answered by greenluxi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her she can be the babys godmother since you two are best friends.Just be happy dont bragg though.
2006-08-14 19:14:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2014-07-14 19:46:12 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand your question.
Just tell her! It's not hard, is it?
If your friend can't have children--who cares? That's not your problem, and it's not your fault. You shouldn't feel bad that she can't have kids and keep your pregnancy a secret from your best friend. She will find out sooner or later.
Just tell her. It's not like she'll be mad, or anything else.
2006-08-14 19:44:10 · answer #9 · answered by Stella 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
tell her to keep trying as much as she can and hopefully it willhappen to her. and say a little joke like u did all that trying and I GOT PREGNANT!!! lol contact me and let me know what happens.
2006-08-14 19:02:25 · answer #10 · answered by Hopeicouldhelp 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋