2006-08-14 11:49:52 · 16 answers · asked by behind_hazel_eyes22 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Only you know if you are both ready to take on the responsibility of children. If you want to wait a year to spend the time together, just the two of you, then do that. Once you have kids, the responsibility for them never goes away, so you might want to take a little time for yourself first.
However, if you're up for it, then go for it! Having a baby is a stupendous experience!
2006-08-14 11:56:53 · answer #1 · answered by Ellen J 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When You And Your Husband Feel Like You Ready 4 It...If You Can Support The Baby Then Why Not,,If You Have Time To Be A Mother Why Not..
2006-08-14 12:08:39 · answer #2 · answered by ❀Mother Of 2❀ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest waiting until you get the feel of marriage. I have been married for over three years and I am still learning stuff about my hubby. Go out and enjoy each others company before committing yourselves to a child. After you have kids, it is much more difficult to have alone time.
2006-08-14 11:56:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wait at least a year. There really isn't ever a good time to have kids, but after you have them you'll forget all about the silly reasons why you thought you shouldn't have them. You'll know when you're ready. Don't rush it though, just enjoy being married for awhile before you add kids to the equation.
2006-08-14 11:52:53 · answer #4 · answered by BeeFree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need some time as a couple first. How long depends on you, but I would say 2 - 5 years is great.
2006-08-14 12:07:40 · answer #5 · answered by Mustang Gal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a year at least your young. you have plenty of time for kids. enjoy being young. my sis is 21 and married has a baby and preg again. she really did not get to experience life.. so i would wait a year. get all set up put money back...
2006-08-14 12:48:21 · answer #6 · answered by sweet_thang_gurl2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 years is ideal....it gives you both time to get to know each other and learn from each other.
You dont want a baby as a distraction to your relationship right now.
enjoy the moment, and then after 2 years, you can enjoy the kids.
2006-08-14 11:59:36 · answer #7 · answered by spoiled_angel80 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't wait if your love 4 him is the same he has for you and you both are ready to start a family hey why not . but never bring a child to this would if it wasn't meant to .(keep karma in mind it can be a ***** ).
2006-08-14 13:30:29 · answer #8 · answered by <3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seven years, enjoy the time you have together without kids and the sacrifices they require.
2006-08-14 12:26:40 · answer #9 · answered by Jeffrey S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is, by all means, a personal decision. You should have kids as soon as you are ready and happy about your decision. Good luck
2006-08-14 11:55:27 · answer #10 · answered by Miss Taryn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋