My hubby and i have just had one tonight over somthing and nothing, and rather just admit he was in the wrong he argues his point first!
Is this just a man thing or do woman do it as well?
2006-08-14 11:49:50 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I hate arguing with my wife..im bored of it. Maybee we should form a chatroom so we could argue with each others spouces?
a sort of wife swap for domestic rows...make it more interesting.
You could tell me im lousy, and my mrs can tell your fella he doesnt pull his weight. Just make the whole thing more fun?
2006-08-14 11:57:13 · answer #1 · answered by ben b 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I cannot stand to argue. I want to have a calm discussion of the issue, resolve it, and go on. I get so upset when people argue that I break down and cry. It is something from an unpleasant childhood. I explain that to my partner to we understand there can not be any loud arguments.
2006-08-14 11:56:32 · answer #2 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
am afraid to say I do it too - am trying as I get older to make myself see the other side but its not that I cant admit I am wrong, more that at the time, I just cant see I might be wrong. I always argue my point (and sometimes quite enjoy it!!) and always always want to have the last word.
These days our arguments are less heated but I used to hate how bad I felt afterwards. Still do, but its not as bad as it used to be.
2006-08-14 11:56:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a man and woman thing thank you for asking this question because I just had a fight with my fiance (wiffie) last night and we are still feeling it but we are talking and getting along it was over dumb stuff because of our wedding we are just starting to stress a whole lot and fighting for no reason. Thank you again for this message I feel it is time to knock out the petty stuff and get with the program
2006-08-14 12:01:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may not believe this but it is true, my wife will confirm it.
We have been married now for 32 years and we have never had a stand up blazing row. We disagree on everything, talk it out and then agree to disagree. She goes and makes a cup of coffee for us both, I go and start preparing dinner andthen we find something else to disagree about.
We find that this works for us. Sorry about the 'and then'.
2006-08-14 12:10:56 · answer #5 · answered by ADRIAN H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question suggests that some may like arguing. It's a man thing.
2006-08-14 12:00:31 · answer #6 · answered by Ljoy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My late boyfriend used to argue with me all the time. It was fun to prove him wrong. He may have been doing what I do to people all the time and that's play devil's advocate for the sheer joy and entertainment of seeming them get worked up and then tell them if I agree with them. I have a sick sense of humor anyway so this is entertainment for me.
2006-08-14 11:59:20 · answer #7 · answered by Myrtle M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
men get annoyed, like me, when the missus starts an argument over nothing, and i fight back (not physically, ever) but then i usually just apologise for whatever the argument was about. Like, maybe i put the TV box in the wrong place or something.
2006-08-14 15:45:32 · answer #8 · answered by chris_p26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Arguing is good - it clears the air.
Falling out about it is bad...
You and your husband will not see eye to eye on a myriad of subjects.
Best to agree to disagree.
When you're really in a strop because he is being such an a*se; ask yourself - "Is this issue worth ending our relationship over?"
'Cos that's the only choice really - either 'get on with it' or 'give up on it'.
In my experience it's best to 'get on with it'.
Imagine how bored you'd be with a guy who agreed with EVERYTHING you said!
2006-08-14 12:14:50 · answer #9 · answered by franja 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
C.J. Darling You where both in the wrong! arguing fuels anamosity... anamosity fuels divorce! darling even if you or he is in the wrong... give him a kiss and make up... it is horrible, i know from both sides, sat there shaking, having palpatations, and feeling like your head is about to explode... and all the time what is going through your head... i hate arguing!
There are a multitude of hidden things going on right now, that both you and yours are feeling... one of them is pain... Pain from the ones you love most, is the pain that hurts most...
One of my attribues in life is my capability to be Empathic... i read people like books... i do not profess too know it all... but what i do know is the Human need for Love and belonging... do not risk tearing your world apart from one silly argument... Go now and cling like you never clung before... tell him to feel your heart... as you fell his heart, tell him you do not wish to lose what you have... I really mean it... Imagine an argument in a few years when it can really do damage to your hearts with the stress of hurt, in what is supposed to be a loving relationship!
Please believe me the stress of love on your heart can kill you... Don't die of heartache... Live for your moments!
Good Luck!
Peace!
2006-08-14 12:42:52 · answer #10 · answered by AZRAEL è 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋