ok i dont get it why are yall so jealous and protective? my gf get's so mad when i tlk to a girl other than her for longer tha an hour. like even if i go to visit my ex gf without her she gets so mad i mean it's not like we are going to kiss or anything.
2006-08-14 11:40:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
I don't have a problem with my husband talking or hanging out with other women, that's just how some men are. Their friend base is female. Big deal. It only bothers me when he crosses the line and starts to get personal with them. I love my husband and if I've ever felt he's crossed the line, i talk to him about it. overall though it doesn't bother me. Hey, most of my friends are men. And he's okay with it so i show him the same respect.
you sound like a good guy overall.
2006-08-14 11:48:58 · answer #1 · answered by ~SSIRREN~ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Evidently, she cares more about you than you do about her. Who wants to be in a relationship with someone that doesn't care about them. I'm 27yrs. old and am experiencing jealousy in a relationship for the first time. Therefore, I know how it is on both ends. It's a spiritual and biological question. You will find out if you ever fall for someone, then get knocked on your ***. I was emotionally numb for a long time, then I started taking wellbutrin and developed extremely strong feelings for a guy. That's why I say it's biological and spiritual. Read articles on the effects of this medication on chemicals inside the body (especially, the ones on romance and wellbutrin). It's probably close to a love potion. Anyway, most men are pigs. In my experience, it's a form of control for a man when he asks a woman to trust him. While you're trusting him, he's out there contracting diseases and making babies. However, some are sincere. Any woman that falls for that crap is getting cheated on left and right. I want a simple, drama-free life. That type of lifestyle is for sinners and whores. Men can be whores. Also, another thing I don't like about men like that. It's o.k. if a man cheats, but once a woman cheats she's the devil. Most men want a good girl as a long-term girlfriend but a whore in the sheets. Men like that are assholes. There's the issue of diseases, especially during pregnancy. This runs through minds of faithful individuals. You are not serious about her. I don't really believe in too many friends of an opposite sex during relationships. I always kept male friends, they all liked me, but in relationships I try not to. Also, it depends on what type of friends. There are scandolous women out here. Tramps. I'm a very loyal person and I would like a very loyal man. It is unfair to be with a whore, and you will never do the same thing. I will only date spiritual men if my relationship ends. It's about deceit, security, and desirability. I had a jealous boyfriend and felt the same way. Now, I realize that he just cared, and wish I still had someone like that. It is a lot better than to date someone that doesn't give a **** about you, and you're strongly attached to this person. In your older age, you will understand what I'm talking about. B/c the only thing that's out there are diseases and heartache. Hopefully, you will meet someone that breaks you, then it might be to late to realize a good woman or man is hard to find. Loneliness is a *****. Loyal people only wants one man or woman in their life; whores don't care if they have 1 million. Therefore, date a whore or someone vulnerable and innocent and you won't have that problem. I pray for the vulnerable, loyal, or innocent women that fall for male whores.
2006-08-16 19:28:31 · answer #2 · answered by blacksilk79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is because we care about the people we are in love with. We give you guys most of our attention and some guys just take that for granted and just because they can they try to seem to make us mad and feel like sh it. we want to feel secure and protected in a relationship. not manipulated and played for a fool. i hope you listen better than my boyfriend does. really try to put yourself in her shoes. would you like it if she went to her ex's house by herself? i mean they DID used to sleep together. what makes you think it can't happen again? sure if you love her then you can resist it , but , what if you can't? Do you visit her only when you are mad at your girl? that is probably what she thinks about every time you go and visit. when you and her broke up it was because it was something you weren't completly happy about. sex may have been the best thing.why do you still visit her anyway. she is your past and your recent girl should be the one you are with.that's something to think about. she must really love you. trust comes a long way, especially if you had a history of heartbreaks, setbacks and cheats.
2006-08-14 19:36:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not jealous at all.. don't go generalising...
but the reason why some girls are like this is because (yes, im going to generalise as you did) most boys are always thinking of .. IT. so obviously shes gonna be jealous because she feels like she isnt special if you can talk to another girl almost like you talk to her..
and why would you go visit your ex? are you friends... because most guys dont really stay friends with their exes...
2006-08-14 22:42:31 · answer #4 · answered by jogamalucobonito 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very shallow observation on your part....we are not ALL that way - until given reason to be... Don't you think that if you are visiting your ex, or hanging out with other chicks, she would have a right to think you are playing her? I'm very trusting until someone shows me a valid reason not to be. Sorry Zach, I couldn't trust you either.
2006-08-14 18:49:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We're very territorial. Also ask yourself the same question except put yourself in her shoes. If she was over at her "EX "boyfriends place "just visiting" for over an hour, what would YOU begin to think?????Hmmmm..................
2006-08-14 18:49:15 · answer #6 · answered by whtecloud 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you go see your ex without her????????? i'd be pissed too. an ex is an ex for a reason. stay away. i think women are jealous creatures by nature anyway. if you really loved her, you would stay away from other women.
2006-08-14 18:46:11 · answer #7 · answered by thesebootsaremadeforwalkin' 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's no different then if we talk to other guys and some girls are just like that talk to her about it and ask her why
2006-08-14 18:47:27 · answer #8 · answered by crescentmoon93 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would u wanna go and visit your exgf,whats there to talk about
2006-08-14 19:23:01 · answer #9 · answered by loveberry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur a cheater... mean n horrible poor gf, i mean shes ur ex.. EX get over it george! :d
2006-08-14 18:58:04 · answer #10 · answered by The.Anna.The.Sophie 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋