ok i dont get it why are yall so jealous and protective? my gf get's so mad when i tlk to a girl other than her for longer tha an hour. like even if i go to visit my ex gf without her she gets so mad i mean it's not like we are going to kiss or anything.
2006-08-14 11:40:01 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
because she is jealous. she wants all of your attention. she might even feel threaten by other women. remember women are so tough to figure out.
2006-08-14 11:48:15 · answer #1 · answered by Nicko912 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To bunny, I guess you don't care if he is with another man, either. You will care when you have some woman knocking on your door shooting your brains all over the concrete crippling you for life or you contract a sexual disease from this man. Do you care about this man? If so, you're not very smart to not care about if he is with other women or men. Trust is a big issue in a relationship, but it goes a long way. People in the world are crazy. The person you trust today might be the person that kills you and your kids the next day. Be careful. You never truly know a person. Especially, if they disregard your feelings in the first place. If a man or woman is saying you are overbearing b/c you hurt inside and he or she will leave you b/c of you care, then he or she is up to no good. Sometimes, it is innocent, but how do you know what goes on behind closed doors. People have been betrayed by sisters, cousins, and best-friends. Don't think it will never happen to you.
2006-08-16 19:46:16 · answer #2 · answered by blacksilk79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUDE- read my story~
Its just a normal thing to protect your property.
Depending on how you two meet. There may be more than "jealously" in play here. Actions speak volumes!
I know my husband it "true blue", he was cheated on my his ex-wife. I'm a very possessive woman and he finds comfort in that, since the last one never cared enough to show any emotions.
He did get upset at times, yet on several times, those woman wanted him. he didn't believe me, yet I knew! The final straw was...
I "clean laid one out" with my high heels on top of her feet an twisted her wrist and fingers behind her back while smiling and hugging her in front of about 50 people. I then whispered in her ear, don't cry or make a noice, this is my one and only warning! I will break your fingers next time, called her a whore. She couldn''t move cause I was standing on both her feet. I stepped off and stated " Sorry but she has to leave now" A personal issue just came up! I told my husband about it! Since that moment he has never denied me "property rights" anymore. Woman know woman.! Did I mention that it was at a wedding reception for a mutual friend? Did I mention I WAS the minister???? She was the church "harpist", that soon found another job. So its all about woman. My husband holds me in his arm and claims me everywhere we go as a "hands off" to others for both of us.
Losers often want what is Not theirs for the taking.
2006-08-14 19:04:45 · answer #3 · answered by Denise W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She shouldnt be upset about hanging out with friends, but when it comes to the ex, thats bad ju-ju! I guess its just because youve had a past with your ex and sometimes guys have a tendency to go back. At least let her be there when you go see the ex. How would you like it if she hung out with her ex all the time without you? Wouldnt you be a little uptight about it?
2006-08-14 18:48:34 · answer #4 · answered by fairygirl2182 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys have a tendency to go after their Ex. Also guys are over-protective of their girlfriends if they talk longer to another guy for more than 5 minutes!
2006-08-14 21:26:56 · answer #5 · answered by noircorazon 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For one, all girls are not any way.
For another, it's just inconsiderate and hurtful for you to be paying attention to other girls. Why would you spend more than five minutes with another girl? Hasn't it occurred to you that you're hurting her feelings?
Ask your dad how your mom would feel if he went to hang out with his ex girlfriends. My guess is that your mom would not be pleased, but more importantly, your dad would never think of doing something so hurtful to your mom.
I'm also guessing that you wouldn't be real happy if your girlfriend were hanging out with her ex boyfriend or the quarterback of your football team.
It doesn't matter what your intentions are with another girl...hanging out with someone other than your girlfriend is mean, childish, selfish and inconsiderate.
2006-08-14 18:48:04 · answer #6 · answered by abfabmom1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie - this question should be in the relationship section. but yeah most girls would be pissed. Just like if your girl went to go hang out with her ex for an hour, or two, or three..
2006-08-14 18:46:20 · answer #7 · answered by flygrrl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not like that, my boyfriend went on vacation to El Salvador, I don't know what in the world he is doing, or who is he talking to and I am totally OK with that, I am not jealous!!!
2006-08-14 18:53:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dude if u were talking to ur friend for an hour id get worried too...and that depends with how the situation with your EXgirlfriend is...if its all "just friends" then theres no need to be jealous..but if there truly is a reason well then....
2006-08-14 18:47:09 · answer #9 · answered by portuguese_chicka_101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try putting yourself unto her shoes. do u feel comfortable for ur girl talking wd other guys over the fon for longer than one hour. or let her visit her ex boyfrend without you coming... think about it.
2006-08-14 18:46:13 · answer #10 · answered by nome 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋