after our cheer and the game a guy for the football team came up 2 me and said are u good under the sheets and i was lik hell yeah! and he was lik then prove it tommrow. then he walked away. i thought it was a joke untill he called me and he said to come over to his house! wat should i do!?
2006-08-14 11:34:21 · 17 answers · asked by selam R 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
don't do it...it is so not worth it. he's a horny, perverted bastard who wants some ***...he's using u...besides if u get pregnant, do u honestly think he'll be there?
congrats on being head cheerleader
2006-08-14 11:46:57 · answer #1 · answered by [dANiiE♥♫]™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, your in middle school which is obviously too young for fun under the sheets. Just say, "I have some other things to do this evening, I will get back to you on that".
Also, I don't know what you said Hell ya to him if you are questioning it now.
If you really feel like your parents will accept it and that you feel comfortable with it, do it. Just make sure that he is wearing a condom at all times and that you don't suck his area and he doesn't suck ours. No licking either, far to young to that.
For your age, i would suggest to keep your clothes on during sex and to just start out with a french, which might lead to rolling around on the floor and stuff, which is fine!
BE SAFE AND DO WHAT YOU FEEL IS RIGHT AND WHAT YOUR PARENTS WILL ACCEPT!
2006-08-14 13:15:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's my advice... if you're not old enough/willing to have sex then don't talk to guys like u r. How do u think he got the idea that you're willing to have/having sex w/ people? B/c u told him u were! To answer what u should do...don't have sex, don't tell guys u have sex, and don't play like you'll have sex when u aren't going to go through w/ it- that is how a lot of people get raped b/c someone got led on and decided to just take it anyway!
2006-08-14 11:50:25 · answer #3 · answered by elk571 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what you want?Do you want to give up cheering at the risk of having a baby, or do you want to keep a good reputation.You dont have to prove yourself to show them that.Tease him its better than ruining what youve work for.He didnt put a ring on your finger or buy you nice thing so hes not really into you.Hes probably after one thing.Becareful!!!!
2006-08-14 11:51:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont have sex!
you dont need to prove anything! every girl is good in bed! dotn answer the door. Or simply put tell the guy he's not worth the 3 min of heaven you would give him if you wanted to !
2006-08-14 11:42:21 · answer #5 · answered by front_page_hottie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't because there is always a chance of getting pregnate with or without the condom. I wouldn't have told him that you were good under the sheets anyway
2006-08-14 12:38:54 · answer #6 · answered by anomanous friend 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should never have joked back to him, you should have slapped him would have been more like it! That was extremely bold of him. Explain to him that you were joking, and do NOT allow him to pressure you into doing something you dont feel comfortable with.
Good luck!
2006-08-14 11:39:59 · answer #7 · answered by Aimee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either avoid him or be straight forward and tell him you were joking around...then again you could always go through with it
2006-08-14 13:01:43 · answer #8 · answered by ilovpink2much 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u want 2 than do it but you might want 2 use protection but do it if thats what your up for if your not ready than just tell him no. the same thing happened to me but it was different cause it was mi boyfriend
2006-08-14 11:47:20 · answer #9 · answered by luv @!nt @lw@yz 3@$y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are only in middle school dont do it. dont go to his house you never know what he has planned. just ignor it and if he keeps bugging you then tell someone. your too young to be having sex or anything else with a guy so please dont go. boys have dirty minds.
2006-08-14 11:43:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋