I want to ask my best friend (whom I like more that that-see my other questions) About our relationship soon. I'm thinking if i dont do it now I'll never do it. I need some advice. I wanna be subtle about it, nut still get my point across. Please help. (my friendship could depend on this) What kind of things should I say?
2006-08-14 11:31:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Good luck dude. I say you go about this one of two ways. 1) Just make a move. Get her alone and find an excuss to lean in and get that eye contact and plant one on her and see what happens. 2) You just tell her how you feel. But don't joke about it. Don't let her think u r kidding. But remember that anything but a yes is a no. She won't want to hurt your feelings. 3) Your friendship will never be the same. If you want to be with her it will kill twice as bad when she ends up with somebody else. Doesn't really matter which way you go. The Bad news if she didn't want to be with you that way at the beginning she doesn't want you now. Do you think brad pitt ever had to be friends first before he seal the deal. Be ready for disappointment. Hope it pans out.
2006-08-14 11:49:44 · answer #1 · answered by brooklyn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so you like her and want to know if she feels the same way? First things first...girls aren't mind readers, we may think we are - but we aren't! So if you're trying to ask her something, be upfront about it. Ask her if you guys are just friends, or if she thinks of you as more than a friend, on a relationship level. If she says "why", tell her that someone saw you two together (like a co-worker) and thought you guys looked cute together, that you like her and wanted to throw it out there for her.
2006-08-14 11:37:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out for pizza or a carnival. Something fun and casual. She gets the idea you like her if you ask her to go someplace. And make sure she knows it's just the two of you. HOpefully, things will work out by themselves from there. And if she doesnt like you like that, instead of saying "I consider you JUST a friend, she can turn down your offer for a date and you'll subtully get the message." Good luck.
2006-08-14 11:39:48 · answer #3 · answered by Melonball 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confused....
If you are liking her more than a friend then just tell her that.
If you don't want to be direct, ask her how she feels about certain situations. She will get the hint.
2006-08-14 11:37:47 · answer #4 · answered by Lucy Lu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go 4 it
2006-08-14 11:36:06 · answer #5 · answered by Not Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Could u ever imagine US as a couple?"
"Wat would u do if I kissed you?"
"Wat would u do if I told u that our friendship means more to me than anything else in the world...and I wanted to make u my world?"
2006-08-14 11:36:25 · answer #6 · answered by Nikki 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well from experience?forget experience and go for it!if she doesn't feel the same way and she wants nothing to do with you she was never your friend.
2006-08-14 11:37:42 · answer #7 · answered by Judge 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her shes ur gall
2006-08-14 11:36:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋