I have been living with a guy for 8 yrs. In the beginning of our relationship he was very supportive in all aspects of our relationship including paying his half of the bills in a timely matter. For the past two years he's lacked on pulling his share of the weight. He's lazy, no get up and go. How can I get him out of my house? I don't want drama and just want him out !!
2006-08-14 11:12:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sorry to hear about your troubles. It must be painful.
Do you own the home yourself? If so ask him to leave. If he doesn't call the police and have him removed.
Are you renting? Is your name the only name on the lease? If so, ask him to leave. If he doesn't call the police and ask him to leave.
If his name is on the lease, you will have to work with the landlord to get a release for your boyfriend to sign that will remove him from the lease. Then, you can ask him to leave. If he doesn't, ...
2006-08-14 11:19:21 · answer #1 · answered by Otis F 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The only way to do this with no drama is to simply talk to him about it and set a date for him to be out by. Unfortunately unless he is willing to do this there will be drama. I know one girl who actually paid the guy to leave. Told him here is a thousand dollars and you can leave peacefully right now or be moved out the hard way and not see a dime. Sometimes it is easier to just pay them off rather than fight them in court. In this case after 8 years the courts might see him as being a partner in the house and actually give him half.
2006-08-14 18:20:17 · answer #2 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
End the lease then move all your stuff out when he is not around. When he gets home he won't be able to sleep there! Or you could call the apartment complex (or your house) and get the locks changed. Sorry but there is going to be drama when you live with someone that you are not married to.
2006-08-14 18:48:22 · answer #3 · answered by michiganwife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him an eviction notice and leave a stack of boxes for him to pack his crap. Then you go out somewhere and tell him to be gone by the time you get back. He probably knows he's been pressing his luck and he knows the end of your rope is coming, he won't be surprised, he's only continuing to do it because you haven't done anything about it yet.
2006-08-14 18:26:54 · answer #4 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Vote Democratic this fall! Oh, I'm sorry wrong dead beat.
You could try telling this guy how his actions make you feel. This is a good way to state your position without giving him something to argue with. Let him know how things are, he hasn't wanted to pull his weight, and you need someone that is willing to contribute. Give him a date, and stick to it.
2006-08-14 18:27:31 · answer #5 · answered by Rockvillerich 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you need to let him know that since he can't pay on these bills with me, he need to be looking for shelter somewhere else. If he was living on his own, he would have to pay bills. Let him know you're not his mother, but you also need to realize that you may have spoiled him to where he don't think you're serious. If all else fail, call that number (911). Take care
2006-08-14 18:23:49 · answer #6 · answered by lissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
been there. you just gotta tell him to hit the road. forget no drama.youve been together 8 yrs, theres gonna be drama. but trust me you will be so happy to be free of him. you will look and feel better.
2006-08-14 20:48:53 · answer #7 · answered by jeepgirl5371 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go get the guys with the broken noses and pay them $100. they will get him out for you while you are some place else, no drama you will see.
2006-08-14 18:29:32 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not much you can do but tell him to get out..there will probley be drama but you gotta get it started..kick his lazy but to the curb..i had to do the same thing a few monthes ago..you will feel much better once he is gone...good luck
2006-08-14 18:21:25 · answer #9 · answered by va8326 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get an legal eviction, contact the sheriff cause the police will not put him out
2006-08-14 18:57:24 · answer #10 · answered by shamira 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋