why is it that girls now hang around in gangs and dress like lads ?

Question

everyone has seen them whats with it ? its a silly question but still anyone have anything to say on the matter ?

i just see it too oftern its not me been an old turd and picking on them but to me ladys should look like ladys cos when thay do its so sexy to us men i mean who wants a gilrl who talks,walks,and acts like a man

Answer 1

well i don't know where you live, but where i am the girls dress nothing like boys, but many dress very provocatively. I think girls are so used to being judged by their looks(how revealing their clothes are, how skinny they are, how many lads fancy them, how sexy they are etc etc) that many seem to think that they are worthless if they just try to be themselves!
Society today is geared up for the mini celebrity. they all want a piece, they all think that hooking themselves a nice rich footballer is the key to life.
OUT the window went ambition,
OUT the window went real girl power, i would prefer to see a girl dressed in baggy clothes than looking like a hooker.

One thing i agree with you on though, is just how beautiful, a truly feminine woman can be.
The MOST beautiful thing ever though would be if people could just be happy in their own skins and accept others that way too!

I have a younger sister who gets in fights all the time, swears like a trooper, smokes marijuana like most people smoke a ciggarette,and considers herself to be rock hard and GANGSTA like.
She drinks most men under the table, and has a chip on her shoulder in general. She thinks acting this way is going to gain her respect, but people laugh about her behind her back, or try to avoid being around her(where she is trouble is never too far away).
Despite of all of this bravado, deep down she is sensitive, and just wants someone to really love her. She is usually the most attractive girl in the bar, but no bloke ever sticks around her for long, or they treat her bad.

Society in general doesnt know who to be anymore.

Answer 2

This is such a long winded answer - let's see if I can be bothered to type it all up ...

In a post-feminist society, traditional gender roles have been displaced and there is not so much pressure on traditional feminity. Likewise, feminity has long been associated with weakness. In a society in which increasing numbers of children grow up outside the safety of the typical familial structure feminity and "softness" can be seen as a mark of vulnerability. Girls cannot afford to be seen as weak and so adopt a more masculine mode of dress and behaviour. Masculine dress also suggests less overt sexuality and so may well be a subconscious effort to protect a fatherless (so therefore unprotected) girl from unwanted sexual advances from predatory males. A combination of the breakdown of the nuclear family and the increasing displacement of males in society often means that young men are more emasculated than they might have been in previous generations. This leads to a gender gap which is being filled by young girls. Finally, as youth pregnancy increases and many teenage girls become single mothers they are forced to adopt the masculine role of "protector" to ensure the safety of their offspring.

..... Oh, I could be bothered to type it then! Hope this answers your question.

Answer 3

We dress like lads at times and like ladies at other. When I am feeling playful thats when I dress like a lad, when feeling feminine/sexy I hit the heels and when I am in a no nonsense mood , I tie my hair back and wear the suit! Tip: Do not mess with a lady in a suit!!!Hahahahahaha. Ooh about hanging out in gangs, I normally surround myself with less beautiful girls! Mean, I know.

Answer 4

I'm very young, but i stay clear of those spitting rough drinker girlie gang types cos i don't like to mix with the lower classes anyway.

Answer 5

my daugther used to hang around in gangs I suppose these days its safety in numbers who can blame them, but she never dressed like a lad as she always wanted to impress the lads in the gang she hung round with.

When I was in my teens you had one or two friends but the world seemed a lot safer then, I hate going out at night these days.

Answer 6

What girls are you talking about?? Mostly everyone I now imitates Cosmo and Glamour. Where are you living? Maybe you should move from gang girl towns

Answer 7

im thinking of adapting the 'lads way of dressing' just for a change as it looks pretty good wearing baggy trousers and oversized jumpers!... plus people take u more seriously when they think ur a boy instead of a girl...

Answer 8

Because the lads hang around in coffee bars and dress like girls? Sorry, couldn't resist. Thanks for the interesting question!

Answer 9

cuz they might be lesbians or just a tomboy i got a sister who always wear tracksuits and hoodies-never see her in a dress but she got a boyfriend and they got 2 kids so she is definietly not gay

Answer 10

my lady associates at the instant are not into footy in any respect so i on no account refer to them approximately soccer reason they dont comprehend the 1st subject approximately it.i specially carry out with women nevertheless.i purely prefer they knew stuff approximately footy