2006-08-14 11:02:25 · 11 answers · asked by celeste a 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
lol..all guys are good guys in the making. but a lot of time they have to meet the *right girl* in order to see that they need to change and grow up. just because you end up Not being the right one doesn't mean ur not a great person..u just need to keep up Your boundaries and expectations til u find a boy who is willing to become a man for you. it's worth the wait.... i've finally found a boy that has become a man in the months we've been dating..and its Awesome. we had no clue what we were doing, but we are both open minded, respectful, and trusting, and loving people. becasue he didn't wanna lose such an awesome gf as myself (! :D hehe), he wanted to do all he could to fix whatever needed fixing. With Me and For me. it's awesome. and we are stronger than we ever were. i had to give him the chance to learn, and he had to take that chance to make the relationship better. :) men are not used to being sensitive or emotional; they need a woman who is patient and willing to teach them...and they in turn have to be willing to learn! give and take..keep looking, u will find it!
2006-08-14 11:10:51 · answer #1 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Nah, many of my friends are great guys, they treat women with respect and are loyal and sincere - and they're not taken. But all of them were at one point or another. People go in and out of relationships, sometimes it's not meant to be.
Most of them aren't actively looking right now - they're busy prioritizing their careers and family. But they keep an eye open for any special women that they meet.
I guess you might be asking a more subtle question: "Where are the good guys who are available?" Maybe you could do some charitable work, if you don't already. There are lots of good people who do, I've found its a great way to meet people.
EDIT: But to attract a good guy, you yourself have to have integrity and confidence. A lot of women want a 'good guy' but they blow their chances because they're controlling, overly needy, self-centered, etc. So be the change you want in others, and the good guys will come knocking at your door.
2006-08-14 18:22:19 · answer #2 · answered by Jimmy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can't speak for all men, but I was taken 20 years ago....
2006-08-14 18:07:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not taken yet, but my standards are high since I got divorced. She has to be an active devoted Christian first and foremost.
2006-08-14 19:44:03 · answer #4 · answered by crgrier 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm not taken anywhere worth going. Just because I didn't ask for anything, one girl exclaimed "You're good for nothing!" But she was wrong. Sometimes I'm good for a laugh.
2006-08-14 18:27:02 · answer #5 · answered by beast 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
No, because most girls go for jerks and not nice guys. Then when they get old and have to get married they come running to us.
2006-08-14 18:08:44 · answer #6 · answered by Sean 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes we are. You'll have to settle for the losers now.
2006-08-14 18:07:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
not all of them but I got 4 of em.sorry if u wanted them
2006-08-14 18:10:09 · answer #8 · answered by candy_luva38 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
no they are out looking as hard as you are, and losing hope as fast.
2006-08-14 18:09:42 · answer #9 · answered by La Princesa 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not. But maybe I'm not a good guy............
2006-08-14 18:09:33 · answer #10 · answered by Mickey C 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋