she told him that she didn't know then she called me and asked if it would be ok with me at first i said no but i told her i would think bout it and i've been thinking he always goes back and forth between the to of us so maybe it was the right thing to do when i told her it was ok ...what do u think he was just woried bout us still being friends that's y he kept three waying eachother and tryin to get this thing solved and he even asked me if i was ok with it i told him that i thought as him as a brother that a loved more than a brother and he loves me more than a sister so maybe it was the right thing to do but idk what do u guys / girls think??
2006-08-14 10:56:51 · 18 answers · asked by Danielle D 1 in News & Events ➔ Current Events
I think your question would be much more readable if you used commas and periods.
But aside from that, it's up to you: if you want your ex and your best friend to be happy, you will be happy for them. But it sounds like he's acting a little immature.
2006-08-14 11:00:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a very nice and secure person, and if you think that everyone can remain friends with no animosity then great. This is not a situation I would normally say go for, but if you really do care for someone you want them to be happy, and you sound mature enough to handle it.
One thing that concerns me is you said he was going back and forth between you. That sounds very sketchy, I don't know what you meant but...
Good luck, and yea punctuation would make it easier to read.
2006-08-14 18:06:45 · answer #2 · answered by crct2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U guys aren't really best friend then because best friends wouldn't be dating each others boyfriends. It's just so logical that it is so nasty. And if she was a true friend she would know that u r heart broken and wouldn't have the guts to ask u if she can date ur bf. She clearly has no respect towards lur feelings and clearly is not ur friend
2006-08-14 18:02:17 · answer #3 · answered by Italian Empress 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a serious NO NO. Your best friend should have known better and told him NO right off the bat without question. If she does end up dating him, it will always be so awkward for you to see them together, in front of you. Don't you think?
2006-08-14 18:03:21 · answer #4 · answered by Sugar_Mama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think neither of you should date him. It sounds like he's playing the both of you -- he wants to have two girlfriends at the same time!
Also, if it will bother you, or make you feel hurt or jealous for him to date your friend, she should not date him.
I know this is a tough one, but I personally would never even think about dating a friend's ex, out of consideration for my friend's feelings and respect for our friendship.
2006-08-14 18:02:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is your best friend - she shouldn't go out with him. HE doesn't respect you - female best friend relationships are different than men's. they don't hold things to heart as we do - so by him asking her, he is asking for the end of your relationship. glad she asked you but you should say no.
there are some occasions where this has worked, but those require a certain maturity.
2006-08-14 18:04:35 · answer #6 · answered by Kissingbythesea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you need to stay away from him for a while because he really dont love you if he gonna go out with you best friend.
2006-08-14 18:04:17 · answer #7 · answered by Nick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she was really your friend she would not even have considered going out with your ex. I think it would be best to just dump both of them.
2006-08-14 18:15:09 · answer #8 · answered by Jason L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look what happened when Denise started dating friend Healther Locklear ex. It ruined their relationship, share this with your friend.
2006-08-14 18:03:10 · answer #9 · answered by Just ME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all what kind of "bestfriends" share boyfriends? and second of all how the heck could he have been your "boyfriend" if you love him like a brother? dude this is one messed up "friendship" you have!
2006-08-14 18:03:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋