I have a so called "Best Friend" and I work with her and at my job I don't do anything except talk. and Yes I get paid to do nothing. Today her cousin's best friend came with her friend and she just excluded me out. She left me sitting alone by myself just listening to music. I was very lonely and bored. She was talking to them and then pretended that I wasn't even there. I was so mad that I left early. I was kinda hurt. How you be with me all the time and then as soon as you see someone you know. You just pretend I don't exist. Isn't that messed up??
2006-08-14 10:30:53 · 38 answers · asked by tRaCi3 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
The girl that she left me for had a friend and introduced her to my friend, but she couldn't introduce me???
2006-08-14 10:41:05 · update #1
For the Amount of People that asked me how old I am, I am 15
2006-08-14 10:49:55 · update #2
You're taking things a little too personal. Relax and don't worry about it. If your friend keeps ignoring you, then you can get worried.
2006-08-14 10:34:37 · answer #1 · answered by yamaha bassman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It may be hard to believe, but maybe she didn't realize what she was doing. If I were were you, I would bring it up and ask her why she didn't introduce you to her other friends. Point out that it hurt your feelings that she excluded you. If she really values your friendship she will apologize and won't do it again.
If she gives you some fake excuse and no apology then she probably isn't a true friend.
Maybe the people she was talking to don't like you for some reason? Then, in that case it is possible she was trying to avoid a tense situation.
At any rate, it was VERY messed up for her to behave that way without offering an explanation. Especially if you consider her to be your "best friend" Best friends do not do things like that, if you ask me -- which you did : )
2006-08-14 10:57:03 · answer #2 · answered by applegirl1976 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes that does sound kind of messed up. You should call her and ask her why she treated you like that. I must bring up another point though...you left work early because of someone else? Do not let your friends or so-called friends affect your job. I'm not sure how old you are, but if I were you I would try to keep my personal life separate from my work life. Don't let a bad situation with a friend get you in trouble with the boss. Remember that advice for the future. :)
Good luck with your friend.
2006-08-14 10:40:27 · answer #3 · answered by Tea_el 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's the thing. If you are getting paid to just sit and talk and it's NOT a phone sex company, then you are one lazy mess and I wouldn't bother even acknowledging you when it comes down to my true friends. Truth told, SHE's probably trying to get her job done and is only being polite while talking with you when in fact, she's thinking:
"I'm gonna get fired if I keep talking like this! Why can't that stupid ho ever shut the hell up? I mean, does she even HAVE a life? I'm so freekin tired of hearing about her cat, and how many donuts she can eat while watching MTV. She gets fatter every day and even smells bad. And if that's not bad enough, all she EVER talks about is HER life, HER crap, HER drama -- so when MY friends come in tomorrow, I'm not even going to embarrass myself by introducing them to her -- gawd!!"
IF ANY OF THIS pisses you off, then sorry hun, it's probably true.
It it's all false, then never mind -- she's a shallow b*tch and you are right... find a new "friend"... :)
2006-08-14 11:36:52 · answer #4 · answered by fitpro11 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you work at Abercrombie, sitting around doing nothing, talking and listening to music!
You should have intruduced yourself and included yourself in the conversation. You really shouldn't get so upset and leave early, no reason for that. It's not like she cussed you out and punched you in the eye. If you're her best friend then you shouldn't get so mad about something like this, friends will be friends! She's not going to leave you.
2006-08-14 10:38:11 · answer #5 · answered by goldiemcg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That happens to me all of the time. Friends are just not worth having . I just have given up on ever having a good friend completely. I would rather stay home with my daughter and play barbies , read to her , and play with are puppy and kitten. Just calmly tell her ( when no one else is around ) that it really bothers you when she ignores you when there is other people around. If she doesn't change , just be nice to her, but find new friends.
2006-08-14 10:36:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, that is messed up. Looks like she really isn't your best friend after all. At least now you know how she really feels about you and that she just hangs out with you when she is bored and there is no one else to talk to.
2006-08-14 10:37:19 · answer #7 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be discussing this with her...or perhaps since you two are "best" friends, she expected you would just join in and thought you were being antisocial by keeping to yourself and not joining in, as one might expect a friend to do...
Don't accuse, but talk to her about it...she may not have realized you felt left out...it may be that you thought she was excluding you, and she thought you didn't want to be included...
2006-08-14 10:37:39 · answer #8 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is. You need to talk to her about friendship. I wouldnt even call her my friend. What she should have done was introduced you to the other girl and all ya'll talk together. Find more loyal friends because she dont seem like one.
2006-08-14 10:35:57 · answer #9 · answered by hodgesandguy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the next time she tries to have a convo with you, tell her you speak to people who acknowledge you exist 24/7 and not when she's bored has nothing to do. What a b*itch!
2006-08-14 10:37:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋