she is white,and i am black. her daddy really hates blacks for a fact
2006-08-14 10:22:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Tell him he's making the rest of the white folks ashamed of him
2006-08-14 10:29:47 · answer #1 · answered by phoneypersona 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may never be able to overcome this barrier. Some people-especially older ones raised in a different era-have very strong beliefs that they are unwilling to change.
This really is your girlfriend's problem to handle, not yours. She is going to have to make a choice---lose you, or lose her parents.
The best possible outcome would be that she chooses you, and that over time her parents come around and realize that color is meaningless as long as you treat each other well and with love. But it could be a cold reality that such a day will never come, and by being with you she would lose her relationship with them, permanently.
This is something only she can decide.
2006-08-16 14:19:56 · answer #2 · answered by Daisy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem. I am mexican the man I loved was black. I first made sure that ou love for eachother was mutual so that it wouldn't be a useless fight. Then I talked to him and made certain that he would stand by through out all the drama REGARDLESS of what happens. I made sure the time was right and continued to pursue my relationship with this man because I was certain that he would be by my side. He helpled the situation temendously by being a respectful gentleman despite any discomfort or unease that he felt. He fought just as hard as i did because we knew what we wanted. Know he is my fiance and my family absolutly loves him! if its worth it....you will regret that you didnt stand up for yourself....but it has to be mutual!!!!!
2006-08-14 17:33:36 · answer #3 · answered by AUDREY H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just date her regardless of what they or anyone else thinks,because finally they'll have to live with it and eventually they'll start liking you,and when you break up with her they'll miss you,that's common i hear alot of stories like that. But don't mess up or anything like don't do something you'll regret because you are setting an example for all your Black people,if they like you they like all of black people that's just the way white people are
2006-08-14 23:47:29 · answer #4 · answered by Blucontrell Esminosa-Garcia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then that's on him, if he hates you for something you had no control over. You can only go so far in life impressing people and doing things for others. So she needs to make the choice, pleasing someone else or making herself happy.
2006-08-14 17:29:09 · answer #5 · answered by Nox 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she can't be with you because of that then it it time to move on. You don't say how old she is so I can't get any clearer. If she is old enough to be on her own then it's time to go. If not then you will have to give her time if she really feels the same way about you.
2006-08-14 17:33:55 · answer #6 · answered by wickster234 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Screw 'em she needs to make her mind up for herself. They would feel real stupid if dated a white guy and she was treated badly. So they will never be happy, mail them some pointy white hats.
2006-08-14 17:36:37 · answer #7 · answered by ihadnuttin2dowitit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he may or may not get over it...my dad did not untill he ended up w/ 2 half black grandkids. that changed his tone real fast. just keep things on the DL for now
2006-08-14 17:26:40 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop them off at their Klan's meeting on your way to taking your
girlfriend out on a date.
2006-08-14 17:30:11 · answer #9 · answered by retrodragonfly 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get to know her parents better, find out what they like in their daughter's boyfriends that you can change (education, occupation, hobbies, etc) and do it...knowledge is the key to overcoming prejudice
2006-08-14 17:26:35 · answer #10 · answered by Dwight D J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋