what should i do? help!?

Question

i'm bi and i'm in love with my best friend, and i can't stop thinking about her or dreaming or anything and i've tryed, i've told her how i feel and she's fine with it, but she doesn't love me that way, she loves my other friend, and i buy her everything and i do anything for her. i have lost sleep just thinking about her and i also stop eating, and i lost 7 pounds and now i'm really under weight by 20 pounds i think. but i love her so much, how can i let her fall in love with me? what should i do? HELP!! pls

ok people u don't have to answer this question anymore, i've woken up, i still love her but i'm going to move on and pick up my weight a little, thanks for everything and bye

Answer 1

Brooke, please, don't do this to yourself. you deserve so much better! why on Earthwould you drag for her? I understand how you feel right now, and I know you think you won't be able to live without her, but weren't you alive before you knew her? Know that you're strong and won't ever need another person to survive. don't continue wasting your money on her, you won't buy her. and, in my very critical opinion, I wouldn't like someone insisting and acting needy the way you are doing. Just keep some distance. Why don't you try new people? New friends? Aren't they supposed to make you feel good? So, just love yourself first and others will love you naturally. Good luck in life, girl!

Answer 2

A) is your name really brook davis?

B) are you aware that brooke davis is one of the hottest characters on the WB?

COOL! ok anyways

You're in love with your best friend, I had the same situation. She had a rough homelife and i took her under my wing. She was a senior and i was a soph. I helped her through it all


Things evolved.. then she kept going on dates with guys and slowly but surely tore me apart - emotion after emotion.

I was and am currently still so twisted from it. My advice is to discuss it with her and close your wallet/

secondly, how old are you? If you're too young and you get confused and fall into this too soon- things will happen and you'll be miserable.

Thirdly- best of luck. I don't want to see anyone get hurt. But feel free to email me if you need any advice along the way.

:)

Answer 3

Obviously she's not interested in you, hon move on. There are other fish in the ocean just waiting to be with you. I know that now 45 yrs.later, though! Stop buying her gifts as you can't buy her love, hon she'll get tired of it amd perhaps hurt you more by taking advantage of you.

Answer 4

Love or Lust? That is the question. When you truly love a person you accept and respect their decisions. If your friend loves another then why are you wasting precious time over this matter. You are making yourself sick for what? Remember the heart chooses who it wants to love, you can not make another perosn love you.

Answer 5

Is your other friend a girl as well? You are stressing yourself out big time. Quit while you are already too far gone. Get yourself together. Your INFACTUATION for your friend is VERY STRONG and as you can see VERY UNHEALTHY.

Answer 6

Your just going to have to accept shes you're not her type and move on.
Tammi Dee

Answer 7

unfortunately, if she's not returning your feelings, you are only driving yourself crazy. i think you should spend your money buying nice things for yourself, and try to focus on meeting someone else. sorry.

Answer 8

just a heads up, if you buy her everything, and she's not in love with you, close your wallet and see if that changes your relationship.

Answer 9

Find a good boyfriend.

Answer 10

forget about her, she is not interested in you sexually.