I been through relations, have dum every crazy thing except intercourse, thinking to share "that" fk-movement with the "one" I will spend my life with. However, lately I have started feeling guilty for some reason; I don't know. Is it mean that now it is the time for me to step up and take what already mine or hold myself for the "one"? I need ur thoughts about this, kindly guide me...
2006-08-14 09:58:54 · 24 answers · asked by VJ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
save yourself for marriage
2006-08-20 00:33:04 · answer #1 · answered by kelsey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, your question is kind of incoherent.
Look, here's the thing. Sex before marriage isn't a bad thing, especially now that our bodies are maturing earlier and we're marrying later in life. A century ago, most people married at the age of 16 or 17, so it was perfectly reasonable to remain a virgin. Now people are hitting puberty at twelve and not marrying until age 28.
Casual sex, however, is another story. That's why you need to make sure that it's with somebody you feel committed to. Sex is not the end-all, be-all goal of your life or your relationship. It's just one more great thing about being with somebody you love.
2006-08-14 10:07:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait for the right one. Don't let yourself give in to someone that you don't plan on spending the rest of your life with. Because if you do that then you are just going to have more guilt to deal with. Don't put yourself under so much pressure, just relax and eventually the right will come along.
2006-08-14 10:10:07 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you want and half the time practice makes perfect. So do you plan on marrying a virgin because you may get a woman who has been there and done that and you will not know what to do. Good luck
2006-08-21 11:36:09 · answer #4 · answered by marrissa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay strong and save it for the special one you are to be with. It will mean a lot when you are married.
2006-08-21 11:34:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is highly unsual coming from a guy, but I think it is very honorable of you to feel this way. especially with all the different types of std and herpies etc. good going! save your self for that special lady. it will mean more to her and you.
2006-08-14 11:39:32 · answer #6 · answered by RAINBOW 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen...."step up and take what's already yours?" Ummm, no. It isn't "yours"... if you are talkin about "sex" then... usually it consists of you and another person... so it's never just yours..... and since you've waited this long.... GO AHEAD AND WAIT... for once it's gone... it's gone.. .SAVE it... it's worth it...... REALLY.... you'll find that someone.... and when you do... FIREWORKS
2006-08-14 10:07:10 · answer #7 · answered by Piper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you know what's right for you. It is special. It should be special. Don't take sex casually. When it's right, it will mean so much more to you and your partner. You'll know when the time is right.
2006-08-14 10:06:12 · answer #8 · answered by viclyn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait till the right one and marriage that is what im doing and i have zero regrets so far.
2006-08-19 22:21:45 · answer #9 · answered by sammy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I waited til I was with the man I knew I would marry before I gave it up... never regreted it. my husband was not a virgin when we met, and it still bothers me to know that I will never be his "one and only"
2006-08-20 03:43:34 · answer #10 · answered by braslinbabe85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Arnt many like you these days. Just keep doin what you been doin and pray for Gods help.
2006-08-20 08:44:36 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋