Is asking a woman to love you with all her heart, to much to ask if the man knows he will be dying with in 5 to 7 years.and will half to say good bye at the end of those years. do you think that this is asking for to much in a woman.
2006-08-14 09:53:46 · 19 answers · asked by Cobra 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
no honestly i dont i think that everyone deserves to feel real love before they die i mean if i knew that the man i was with would be dying in a few years then i would prolly marry him so that he would know how much that i truly did love him and so that he could die happy
2006-08-14 09:59:17 · answer #1 · answered by psycholilblondegirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is it too much to ask? Love is a complicated thing. No, it's not too much to ask if the two of you are already in love with one another. If it is unconditional love, then time is not an issue, if it's real, even after you are dead, buried and gone she will love you forever... and who's to say when you die that it really is goodbye?
On the death part, there may be alternatives.... 5 to 7 years? What sort of disease is this? There probably will be many medical advances in that time, so there's hope.
How about this? How about you commit to love each other, unconditionally no matter what and thru heaven and high water.. .take on the challenges of life.. .. try to be as good to each other as you can... succeed.. .grow.... and know.... that you've made the right one.. to love.... until you can love no more.
2006-08-14 17:03:23 · answer #2 · answered by Piper 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not too much to ask, but the doing may be more difficult than the desire to give. For the most part, love comes to us and leaves us without our having any real control over it. With the best will in the world, a woman may promise to love, but will find herself unable to continue loving, even though she would wish to. She might be able to fake it for the amount of time you have in mind, but not necessarily actually feel it.
2006-08-14 17:10:28 · answer #3 · answered by pessimoptimist 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You cant ask a person to love you more than what they already feel. I am learning this now, she is who she is and things that youtoo may go through will bring you closer. The things youdo for her and the things she does for you hel her to fall more in love, but this is not why some one ultimately loves you. It is only through time that love grows more, through trial, trust, support. If anything I think if she is going to be your suport system through these 5-7 years you will be the man who loves so much more, more because of how she will make you feel and who she will prove to be.
2006-08-14 17:24:05 · answer #4 · answered by Nickerbockers 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not asking too much, but you need to ask it of the right woman. That's quite an emotional roller coaster to endure and accept. It takes a very special woman for that.
2006-08-14 16:59:18 · answer #5 · answered by viclyn 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Now do you have a "woman" that is leary of what you ask, or are you looking for one? Either way I would say no it is by all means not too much to ask, dying or not.
2006-08-14 17:00:36 · answer #6 · answered by Kelly Y 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she is your wife, no, it's not too much to ask. If it is just someone you know, then probably, yes, it would be too much to ask. You could ask her to be your dearest friend those years, but not to love you if she doesn't. That would be like totally wrong and you can't make someone love you in the first place.
2006-08-14 16:59:44 · answer #7 · answered by The Nana of Nana's 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not too much to ask. Just make sure she is aware of the circumstances first and give her the option to love or lose out.
2006-08-14 16:59:17 · answer #8 · answered by mirkyl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We are all going to die some day. But you cannot make love bloom where there is no seed. If she loves you she will be with you and treasure the time you have together
2006-08-14 17:47:21 · answer #9 · answered by doicu 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Too much? I don't know. I guess it depends on the woman and her feelings for you. But it is emotionally verry demanding. Definitely
2006-08-14 16:58:59 · answer #10 · answered by paliminka 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋