My wife and I fight.
Constantly.
All the time.
She said to me this morning, "I only want happiness for you, and if that means you leaving me and having a happy life for yourself, you should do it".
Now I know that is not what she truely means.
Ladies........what does that mean in "Woman Talk".
Thanks.
2006-08-14 09:38:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It means she doesn't know what else to say, she thinks your not happy with her and that she isn't enough for you. SHe's really feeling bad and is about ready to give up trying.
2006-08-14 09:50:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's saying that she really cares for you and hope that you care for her too. She doesn't mean it when she said you should leave her to be happy- oh believe me she will be devastated if you do. She only say that to illustrate to you how much she loves you but at the same time she feels like a failure that she can not keep you happy... she's probably questioning herself and wonder if she's good enough for you.
2006-08-14 18:00:37 · answer #2 · answered by Bobbie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is trying to tell you that she is also tired of fighting and feels the same way you do about your relationship. But she didn't want to be the first one to say something. She might already be interested in someone else. And her telling you to basically go ahead and leave and be happy is her way of saying she also wants the same for herself. That way you end up looking like a jerk and she looks like the innocent one.
2006-08-14 17:21:08 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means she is just as sick of the fighting as you are. She doesn't know what else to do or to say to stop the fighting. So in thinking things through, over and over again. She has come to the conclusion that enough is enough. The fighting doesn't look like it is going to stop, so it's best to throw in the towel. Let him be happy and move on with his life. I know exactly how she feels. My spouce and I fight all the time, everyday. I'm so sick of it, I'm ready to throw in the towel. I'ts just too too stressful, all the fighting. It's best that atleast one of you are happy and move on with your life. I'm not saying your the blame, so please don't take it that way. All I'm saying is, she has given up.
2006-08-14 18:15:18 · answer #4 · answered by older&wiserforit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means you should have said Baby I would never be happy without you in my life and If thats not true then you need to work this out spend some major time apart to see if your happy without each other.
2006-08-14 16:45:15 · answer #5 · answered by Lauren D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wanst you to say that SHe makes you happy and that you will nerver leave. She wwants yoru attention and is rocking the boat for you to wake up.
On a second thought...
She may have someone else and is telling you that you should find hapiness elsewhere 9as she already forund happiness elsewhere)
Good luck
2006-08-14 17:06:25 · answer #6 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I say that, it's because I give up and don't want to fight with my husband anymore. But I really do mean it, and chances are, so does she. Stop fighting and start talking. Really talking. From the heart, not the head. And listen to what she tells you. It means she loves you.
2006-08-14 16:45:09 · answer #7 · answered by I'm just me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She thinks you dont love her ! That you are not happy with her so she says she wants you to b happy
2006-08-14 16:56:36 · answer #8 · answered by Emma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she really loves u.. n u need to put yur differneces aside and really get to kno each other b/c its eating both of u up....
2006-08-14 16:45:46 · answer #9 · answered by iyikka14 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means she is sick of fighting with you.
2006-08-14 16:44:53 · answer #10 · answered by LittleLady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋