While I was at tech school my wife ran into her first love. they had sex 6 times in the month and half. Even when she left me at home once I was done with tech school and ****** him. Now I just found out and all of us are staying at a apartment in Spokane Wa. We have no money. Her boyfriend wants to go home. He sleepts in one room and I sleept in another and my wife sleepts in the living room between us. I don't get much sleept and I always check and watch them. My wife told that she didn't feel sorry for what she has done. What do I do? Help
2006-08-14 09:35:45 · 33 answers · asked by sam_davis331 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Kick her OUT!
2006-08-14 09:39:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tough question because men do it all the time and it's the women goingg crazy over it. Men say it was just sex and the other one didn't mean anything. I don't know how long you guys been married but it doesn't look and sound good. First of all she doesn't feel sorry for broking up a happy home problem #1, problem #2 it sound like she it putting him before your relationship when the husband come first. Life is short my friend, and we only live once. Cut her loose now before it gets worse. You'll survive once you guys get spilt up. Most folks do. You have grounds for a divorce according to men and the bible. Last but not least she is sleeping between the both of you when your surpose to be sleeping between them. Hate to sound mean but grow some balls and pack up and start over. Your better off, she won't change I went through that and now I'm better off by far. If you have kids still leave don't use the kids as a reason to stay together. It will only make thing worse she there parents fight a sleeping around with different folks.
2006-08-14 09:51:17 · answer #2 · answered by donlide 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her, and start working on your tech career. The more you better yourself now, the more sleep you'll get, and the girl that's right for you will show up. If you are lucky enough to find a tech girl, or even a business woman, they'll be less inclined to cheat on you since they work for a living. I am going on out a limb, and guessing your (ex)wife does work, or her job is meaningless.
The best way to get back at her is leave, and don't look back. She'll rot at that point.
2006-08-14 09:42:45 · answer #3 · answered by harrisbradley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me get this right--you allowed her bf to live with you guys? Forgive me for saying this, but that is the stupidest thing you could ever do. If your wife is not at all guilty, and holds no regard for your feelings, I think you should gather enough strength to tell yourself enough is enough and walk away from this crappy situation. Money is always easy to find if you go look for a job. But you should leave her, and that house ASAP.
2006-08-14 10:00:47 · answer #4 · answered by the_memory_of_ashes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As soon as possible leave both of them and go to your parents or a friend's house. The being broke is a problem but if you can borrow some money to get out of there. She isn't worth fooling with.
2006-08-14 09:44:03 · answer #5 · answered by a_delphic_oracle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your wife don't feel sorry for what she has done???? freaking ***** and i think that really really mean things for her to say.. guess what soon you will be making alot of money after you done with tech school.. when she going find out you made so much money and she would want to come in your life and you can tell her remember what you said??? " I didn't feel sorry for what I had done!" remember that well, I don't sorry for what I made for this decision and left you......
2006-08-14 10:20:24 · answer #6 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find you a place and leave. Even if it means renting a room. That situation is just TOO stressful. If she doesn't feel sorry for what she did, then I'm sorry, she doesn't love you. And you don't want to be married to someone who doesn't love you. So sorry for you but divorce is in your cards. So sorry, best of luck.
2006-08-14 11:20:11 · answer #7 · answered by older&wiserforit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats really stupid. Why would you let that man come anywhere near your wife? Money or no money? Grow up and be a man, take care of your wife on your own and kick that nasty boyfriend out of there!
2006-08-14 09:40:02 · answer #8 · answered by michiganwife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What in the ***** is wrong with you? grab ahold of your nuts and be a f-uckin man! Kick that dirty b-itch out of your house and your life. Do you like tasting his d-ick every time you kiss your wife? Why do you 'check and watch them' you already know what they are doing, and she doesnt even regret it, why would she stop doing it? Try not to spend the rest of your life being a b*tch ok?
jeez, some of you people are really stupid
2006-08-14 09:42:59 · answer #9 · answered by n2bateyou2000 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
leave her *** - what a ***** - sounds like a crazy situation - you deserve much better than that - although you may not have much money you've got to get away from her and start fresh - there are many other women out there who will treat you the way you should be treated
2006-08-14 09:41:10 · answer #10 · answered by gracien84 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce her caniving a s s!!! Dont put up with that... Once a cheater always a cheater and this situation regardless of emotion is no Different... Shes a MORON for doing that! DIVORCE HER!!!
2006-08-14 09:50:16 · answer #11 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋