had a friend who gets upset about everything, for example if something dosnt go her way she is upset for the rest of the day unless you can cheer her up, which is hard because once shes upset she usually isnt ok until the next day. or if she complains about being broke, wants a new car, and yet she is always spending $$$ if she wants it she will get it most of it is gifts for her family which is nice but she should be thinking about how much she actually has to spend. or if she wont do anything, she dosnt like to tlk to people she dosnt know, but she is always complaining about not knowing any people but isnt talking to people the way to get to know people or am i wrong, and if one thing is wrong with somethig that she is doing she will throw a fit, then either quit it or start all over. what can i do she is a really good friend, but i am starting to really bug me but i dont really want to say anything because i dont want to hurt her feelings?
2006-08-14 09:35:43 · 6 answers · asked by NoOneKnowsMe 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
we have been friends since grade 2, going on 13 years, she is 19 turning 20 in dec, im 18 turning 19 in sept
2006-08-14 09:47:49 · update #1
If she really is your friend you would tell her how you feel about her behaivor. Theres no need to hold nothing back from friends. Thats what they are supposed to be there for, to tell them anything.
2006-08-14 09:42:54 · answer #1 · answered by garichick4life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you don't want to hurt her feelings but it sounds as if she is bringing you down. Why don't you try going out with other friends and not spending as much time with this one? If she does complain about things, just tell her the truth without lecturing her. If she complains about not knowing more people, just tell her that it would be easier for her if she was a little more outgoing. If she does not like that, then you may need to avoid her for a while.
2006-08-20 16:13:16 · answer #2 · answered by Patti C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are stating you had a friend.......Congratulations! You don't need negative friends like this, because you cannot enjoy this friendship. If you want her friendship, than just ignore all her negative comments and don't respond to them, just chance the subject. If she start complaining on the phone just say, sorry I got to go.......... Maybe, she'll get the hint. Ask her straight out, if there is anything in her life that she really likes (and it better be you) and you would like to do something fun with her sometimes.
2006-08-21 02:31:55 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sound like a spoilt brat to me.If she is upset just because something doesn't go her way,ignore her because how frequent does things goes our way,she should mature up a bit to realise that.This kind of people,yeah,they make good friend,occasionally!
But,you most of the time in the friendship YOU are bearing with her,are you happy being a friend with her or just pity her?Your friend won't listen but keep blaming everything and everyone but herself,save your breath if I were you,umm,if I were you,she won't be in my list of friend.Give and take,to me she only know how to take from you.
2006-08-20 23:31:59 · answer #4 · answered by Janet Y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her the truth about everything. The money she is spending. She should learn the value of money. As a friend, you should tell her what is right. Even if she is old to know the difference between right from wrong. You are the one who reminds her. Everything should come from you, the friend whom she trusts.
2006-08-20 11:50:14 · answer #5 · answered by fashion_model 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's common for 6 year olds to act this way.. eventually they'll grow up. Oh she's older than that? Tell her to start acting like it.
2006-08-14 16:44:29 · answer #6 · answered by xjujijimex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋