Me and my boyfriend have been together for a lil over a year. When we were "unofficial" he had sex with two other feamles and tried to get me to befriend them. At the time I didnt have the courage to leave...I have lived with that all during our relationship and now I am afraid of it happening again...I want to leave but at the same time i dont want to loose him. He says he has chaned and I do not have any suspicsions but I dont want to take the chance of getting hurt
2006-08-14 09:18:25 · 4 answers · asked by Lady_G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Okay, you've answered the question of wether or not you love him. But does he love you, to put not one but two different females in your face and expect you to accept it? Darling you already know that if he could do that to you he's obviously NOT the best thing that's ever happened to you. Trust is a major relationsip issue and if you can't trust him you'll never have any peace. Sorry hun but you gotta let that go. For your own good.
2006-08-14 09:31:44 · answer #1 · answered by lovelee1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
O.K so he slept with two other women when you were unofficial..It happens. But for him to ask you to befriend them is out of the question! Goes to show the lack of respect he has for you. yeah it's a possibility that he has changed, But I highly doubt it. There's always room for forgiveness, but don't leave on account of "I'm scared of getting hurt" . The best advice is to give him that second chance;B/C if you truly love him..then you must learn to trust him again. And if he strikes out again, then send his *** Home!!
2006-08-14 09:33:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl u just need to see if u can have another chance at just being friends and be honest
2006-08-14 09:26:38 · answer #3 · answered by shanice_green2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just leave
2006-08-14 09:25:33 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋