I'm a women who loves porn movies and books. I can appreciate beauty when I see it. These women cant pop out of these books and have their way with your men. Its so crazy, these women have to be so insecure with themselves to even think such a thing. I think looking in a book or watching porn is better than cheating any day.
2006-08-14 09:15:08 · 13 answers · asked by adatude4u 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't mind it at all. My husband doesn't watch or look at porn all the time but when he does I either watch with him and have a good time or I leave him alone. As long as it doesn't consume our sex life entirely, I don't see what the big deal is.
2006-08-14 09:27:35 · answer #1 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-07-18 00:57:55 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes they are insecure, sure.
Sometimes it just feels like a betrayal to them, even while for the man it feels impersonal and unrelated to his marriage.
Many woman feel that if they were desirable enough, their husband wouldn't want anyone else. (Maybe that's unrealistic, but the feelings still exist.) More importantly, they no longer feel like the priority in their husband's life.
It's not like this is a totally "harmless" behavior either.
Porn can easily be addictive and grow to consume what time the man should be spending with his wife and kids. It is also very common for a man to "avoid" relating emotionally to his wife and investing himself in her and instead retreating to porn in order to gratify himself and not have to worry about dealing with her.
So even if he's "around," he won't be emotionally invested. It's easier to view porn and feel momentarily satisfied than keep a healthy marriage going, where he can then find sexual pleasure with another human being.
Sex with glossy pages isn't a relationship. At the end of the day, you've got nothing to show for it.
So I'm glad you're not feeling insecure about things, but there are many good reasons for women in general to feel leery of their husbands' porn involvement. I've seen destructive behavior stemming from it a LOT more often than any positive behavior, frankly.
Maybe you're an exception. I wouldn't know.
2006-08-14 09:31:30 · answer #3 · answered by Jennywocky 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Not all women do some women like as much as the men. But the ones that I have issues with it are the types that thing that they are only used for tools to get men horny. Or they are enscure about themselves therefore. I am in total agreement I would rather my man watch porn then cheat on me.
2006-08-14 09:22:10 · answer #4 · answered by Hotbox25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't mind my man looking at porn...
As long as hes loving and attentive to me I have no problem what so ever.
Some women don't like there men ..partners looking. They must have their reasons but not all of us women have an issue with it.
2006-08-14 09:28:43 · answer #5 · answered by vtlovie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the woman. My first GF claimed she hated it, but her mom was a real prude and her values were pushed on to her somewhat. However, after we moved in together, and I introduced her to sex toys, talking about fantasies, etc., she started to enjoy them. The relationship didn't last, but it wasn't because of porn.
My wife who I've been with for 15 years, watches it and enjoys certain genres of porn; interracial and spanking vids.
My wife's best friend can't stand it, but she was raped as a child.
I think women who really dislike it, have some legitimate reason for it, either emotionally or otherwise.
I believe husbands/BF shouldn't harp on their wives/GF to watch it if they don't want to, and wives/GF shouldn't harp on their husbands/BF to stop as long as it's not an addiction.
I do think porn stashes and adult toys should be kept safely away from kids. Too many parents, keep it under their beds or in the closet where kids can too easily find it.
2006-08-14 09:33:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I have no idea. It is the same thing when a guy pulls his pud...why does the wife care? If she is getting all she wants, why does she care...why not join in the fun and help him out? Really screwed up if you ask me. It is one of those, I don't want it, I am not going to have it, and neither are you " deals! I think they are afraid that if the guy isn't really horny, they have no power over him...sad way to live, isn't it?
2006-08-14 09:23:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, before you assume I am fat and ugly I will have you know I am a 5 foot 10 inch blond personal trainer.....and I work with woman AND men EVERY DAY consumed with looking and feeling great....and I feel pretty darn confidant about my own looks but here is what I have to say about your question and my experiences in the 33 little years I have roamed this Earth....................
ANY Woman who claims she has NO PROBLEM with HER MAN LUSTING AFTER OTHER WOMEN IS A FUKING LIAR!!!!!!!!!!!! OR A CLOSET "DYKE"!!!!!
2006-08-14 09:35:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 1⤋
you are right it is an insecure thing. As long as the man is attentive to you there is no problem. I actually enjoy watching it with my hubby.
2006-08-14 11:05:09 · answer #9 · answered by tpurtygrl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women probably feel that thier men should consider them
the object of thier desires. When those desires are viewed eslwhere, it more than likely makes her feel like %$#@!
2006-08-14 09:22:26 · answer #10 · answered by C Med 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋