i dont have a dad,no one knows about it ,i found out yesterday,i am 2 months old,i know becouse my friend got me a test,i am 13,i am in 7th grade,my boy friend left me,( the baby dady)
2006-08-14 09:11:09 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Tell them, "I am pregnant." Nothing else. Good luck - are you going to keep it?
2006-08-14 09:17:30 · answer #1 · answered by doc 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well you need to tell your mom cause she will end up being the one taking care of your baby. You are way too young... You need to go to school and not worry about boys right now. By the way i was 13 when i first got pregnant too. I kept her. But her dad was in her life. And I'm telling you i wish that i would've said something sooner so that i couldve had a 2nd chance. Look the guy already left you. You need to see what is best for you. I wish i would've
2006-08-14 16:24:37 · answer #2 · answered by just another hot mama 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell someone immediately!!!! Your mother or guardian, who ever!!! For one: if you are 2 months along, the baby is in it's first trimester-1-3 months, all that you do now will depend on how the baby will do! You need your prenatal vitamins, you need to eat right, get exercise, get plenty of rest-basically take good care of yourself!! And two: if you don't plan on going through with this pregnancy, if you wait to long, it will be too late to get a abortion if that is a decision you are going to make. But you need to tell someone right away!!! Just come out and tell them...It is very important that your mother or who ever cares for you knows this, so that they can figure out how to deal with this. Good luck!
2006-08-14 16:51:37 · answer #3 · answered by Jenna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, i am sorry to hear you have made the decision to start having sex so young. but now you are pregnant and you need to tell your mother as soon as possible. i have found that through out my life time so far it is always much easier to tell someone something of this sort by sitting down and writing to them a nice message on paper giving some details of the situation. then once they read it they will confront you. maybe by then they will be a little understanding and not get to upset. good luck. take care of yourself and that baby.
2006-08-14 16:31:02 · answer #4 · answered by gunslingerky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down and tell your parents right away. Don't waste another minute. You have options that only you and your family can make.
I have a 13 yr. old son and he is busy with school and sports. However, if it happened to him, I would be dissapointed in myself because I taught him better. (most of all to love himself and that sex is for adults who can raise/afford kids)
BUT I would NEVER stop loving him, and I would help him out as much as I possible could. Good Luck!! Your parents love you;)
2006-08-14 16:25:31 · answer #5 · answered by moddfemm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A 13 year old is way too young for sex. You should be into your friends and going to school and watching PG movies. You have gotten yourself into a lot of trouble. You should not be having sex at such a young age. You laid down and had sex, now you have to be an adult to deal with the repercussions of it. You now have caused your parents a lot of heart ache, all because you were immature and selfish.
2006-08-18 15:45:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh sweety, your just a kid yourself, having a kid. I know that you know what you did was totally irresponsible. You should have not been having sex at age 13, especially unprotected sex. But... now it's happened. I hope that you have a good mom and she listens to you when you talk, because your going to need a mom like that right now. Honey, just sit her down and tell her. That's all you can do.
2006-08-14 18:37:05 · answer #7 · answered by older&wiserforit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure the last thing you need is for everyone to tell you that your stupid or to lecture you, you have asked how to tell your Mum, not for everyone's individual opinion.
Is there a teacher or friends parent that you can talk to, confide in, who would perhaps be happy enough to be with you when you tell your Mum or could possibly break the news to your Mum for you?
There's lots of options that you can take should you choose not to continue with this obvious unplanned pregnancy, go to your doctor who will tell you any options that are available to you.
Feel free to email me if you need to talk to someone, Good Luck with whateva u decide to do. xx
2006-08-14 16:33:35 · answer #8 · answered by splight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you sure are in a pickle...but its not the end of the world...this baby doesnt have to end your life as a kid or adult...if you have the brains to have and keep this baby....its up to you to show him/her just how life is....you are responsible now...so first things first...tell your mom....she will help and guide you thru....and then you must focus on what kind of life you want for you and this baby....cover all areas...school is of the most important...stay in school....go on to college....you can do this...never give up....be strong...
2006-08-14 16:39:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to suck it up, take a deep breath, and sit down with your mom and tell her before she finds out on her own. She will probably be angry with you, but she is your mother and will always love you. I didn't have to tell my mom. I was 15 and she was there at the doctors office when I found out. She didn't get mad but she was disappointed with me. She stuck by my side though
2006-08-14 16:24:01 · answer #10 · answered by purpleama456 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are certain questions that pop up in here that I hope are jokes. If this is not, I sincerely feel for you. You are far too young to be having sex...and getting pregnant. You need to get thte courage and tell your mom...the sooner the better. Is she going to be shocked? Yes. Is she going to be pissed? Yes. Is she still going to love you? Yes.
2006-08-14 16:17:00 · answer #11 · answered by shasta 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋