I am really worried about my boyfriend?

Question

Hi. To paint you a picture I am 21 (Female) and have been living with my boyfriend, who is also 21, (Who I ador) in York for the past year. He owns and operates several businesses with his father. We have quite a big family and lots of friends. We have plently of money and live very comfortably.

Recently he he become really withdrawn from everyhing really. He seems to be under so much stress. He is not really eating properly and have lost quite a lot of weight. I wouldnt say he neglects me but we have drifted apart. I understand that he has a lot of work to do but he seems to be living meetings and client interviews. I am really worried he is going to do himself some serious damage. I have spoken to him about this time and time again but he justs gets annoyed. He is really ambitious and not much satisfies him so he is constantly working, even at home. I am really worried

Answer 1

Obviously, there is something important bothering him...I would wait until a moment when he seems receptive, then ask him, in a concerned and loving way if you can help with anything that is wrong. If he gets angry, just drop it, but try again later. Maybe you can speak to a sister or brother of his also, tell them you are concerned about him.

Answer 2

Girl you man's either got a new girlfriend or he did something that he totally regretted and don't know how to tell you. Or he has some illness and scared also he may just got too much to do/ responsibility for his age.

Sit him down and insist that he tells you what's wrong and what's on is mind. Lt him know that no matter what you love him and will support him always. tell him nice things to persuade him to tell you his problem.

Answer 3

He is indeed in serious danger of stressing himself out.

Have you spoken of your concerns with his family, since he's not listenning to you?

Good luck!