my friend jason and mandy got married on sat.im happy for them.i wonder if they will hang out me and my other friends.i heard once your friends get married they stop hang out with friends.thanks and God Bless.
2006-08-14 09:03:57 · 6 answers · asked by wallyboy197819962001 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Not always true when you say that once your friends got married, then they don't have time to hang out with other people. Sometimes, they do have time to hang out. When they have children, then I know that they might have less time for other people. At least you know that they are your friends. Your friends still keep contact with you.
2006-08-14 09:10:52 · answer #1 · answered by caltam84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can relate to what you are saying. I had the same concern when my best friend got married. It was difficult to accept that the friendship would not be same. Sometimes we have to take ourselves out of the equation and think about the other person. I learned that my friend needed me still. Our friendship is just fine. It changed, but for the better. I am the god-mother of all of her children. Change is hard to accept at first, but it is adaptabale. Give your friend some time to get used to being married and give yourself some time to get used to him being married. It takes a little time to figure out how to manage your friendships and your marriage. Things will work out for the best. If you are good friends, then don't worry and trust that your friend will not forget to remember you. God knows what you need and when you need it. Don't forget that some people come into your life for a short while and others are there to stay much longer. It's up to you to know the difference.
2006-08-14 23:38:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's true, but they can hang out once in a while not like before when he was just dating. He has many responsibility's now, he might have time for you guys you just have to understand if he don't want to hang out at that time. you can call him and your friends to see if there's a day you can hang out and maybe even talk about his life and maybe even give you advice so when you guys get marry.
2006-08-14 16:11:22 · answer #3 · answered by Gloria (Madison) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, they do spend time with each other (it's kind of a point for getting married). If they have kids, you'll probably see even less of them.
I guess couples prefer to hang out with couples, but there are certainly exceptions.
2006-08-14 16:09:59 · answer #4 · answered by mityaj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's a good chance of that. And if you are a good friend you will understand. They will still be your friends of course, but there comes a time in a couples lives where togetherness needs to be all about them. You want them to have a good relationship , right? Do your best to stay their friends...have bbq's or movie nights, and if they attend great...and if not, have fun and invite them to the next event.
2006-08-14 16:10:35 · answer #5 · answered by shasta 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depend on u....... I have friend that stop after and friends that r still there everyday!!
2006-08-14 16:09:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋