Ummm...well, that is pretty gross, but if she washes them, I would rather have my spouse do something gross that doesn't cause her pain, then have her be in pain! If she makes you wash them, that's a different story!! Also, maybe try using different types of paper (I LOVE Charmin) or wipes (I don't like those too much, bc they leave you wet and sticky, but maybe it'll work for her) If nothing else works, let her have the washcloths, just have seperate ones for her bum and ones for the rest of the house. Nobody even had to know which ones "hers" are. Just buy a different color, keep them in a different cupboard, and have her take care of them. But don't keep fighting over this. It may be gross, but it's better than her hurting, right? I hope this helps!
2006-08-14 09:01:39
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answered by Anonymous
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I totally agree with you. I too think that is very disgusting. There is a ton of different brands of toilet paper on the market, and I find it hard to believe each and every one make her raw. Charmin is very soft. Who on gods green earth would want to wash their face with a washcloth that they knew someone wiped their bottom with....yuck! I am sure you love your wife...next time you go to Target or Wal-mart, pick up some charmin and tell her not too wipe as hard. They also make flushable wipes for little kids that she could use instead of a washcloth, those are wet and would not be able to make her bottom raw....just a suggestion.
2006-08-14 09:01:33
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answered by Anonymous
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get her some cottonelle moist wipes. or baby wipes. they won't rub her raw she'll smell all nice and baby fresh
PS hide the washcloths. You're right that is nasty
2006-08-18 07:04:19
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answered by NyteWing 5
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Certain kinds of toilet paper have dyes and perfumes in them that eill rub you raw and make you itch and burn. Charmin makes a wet wipe unscented (sort of like baby wipes) but for adults. They are durable and won't usually sting or burn. Suggest that she try them. Make her throw away any wash clothes that she has wiped her rear with. Washing powder doesn't take out everything. And I'm sure it can't kill all of the germs in feces. yes, you're right it's gross.
2006-08-14 09:06:21
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answered by LittleLady 5
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what brand of paper do u use? try buying something softer like charmin ultra or angel soft if those dont work perhaps a moistend toilet type think like baby wipes or something and yes it is a bit gross even though im sure they get washed its just the fact that she uses it for that purpose and then after its washed and put away u use it to wash your face yes i do agree with u
2006-08-14 09:05:13
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answered by shellie11985 2
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I just wonder what you use to wash your *** with in the shower? If she uses it, then puts it back THAT is nasty But use it , Put it in the wash room to be washed, is no different than using it in the shower , DOnt u wash ur *** in the shower with a washcloth?
2006-08-14 11:21:39
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answered by Anonymous
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I use washcloths on my baby, but they are designated bottom-wiping washcloths! We do not use the washcloths on her bottom and on our faces. They get laundered seperately, too. Maybe she could have her own bottom-wiping stash.
2006-08-14 09:00:21
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answered by Anonymous
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Umph, that's a touchy one. Why don't you set some aside for her and she can only use those ones on the problem area. Although she should appreciate toilet paper for crying out loud. I remember a time when I was out hunting, and no tp. That was rough. :(
2006-08-14 11:54:15
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answered by windandwater 6
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No you're not wrong. That is nasty. She needs to invest in some wet wipes
2006-08-14 09:09:55
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answered by purpleama456 4
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Hell no! that is nasty especially if she washes them and expects them to be used for all purposes as in most households. Wash it today and use it on your face tonight. Wash it tomorrow and use it on her butt the next day. Absolutely do not blame you for being mad. Thats nasty!
2006-08-14 09:09:01
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answered by jslorri 3
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