marriage is better than casual sex, isnt' it? why then think it bad if somebody marry a girl who is in teenages or low and say its child molestation etc but not feel bad if she do sex with her bf
2006-08-14 08:52:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
God make a girl adult at age of 9 approx making her capable of doing sex, at age of 13 she become able to give birth to a child, whats the problem then in marrying and doing sex with a girl that young?
2006-08-14 09:09:26 · update #1
let me elaborate my question if a 17 year old guy do sex with a 13 year old girl who is his friend u americans not mind but if he marry her u make it a problem and issue, why?????????
2006-08-14 09:12:36 · update #2
u can infact stop that bf gf sex if u make marriage easier and punishmet for casual sex tougher
2006-08-14 09:14:39 · update #3
The laws regarding age of consent are designed to keep young people safe from creeps like you!
Heck yeah, I would rather my 16 year old daughter was having sex with her 17 year old boyfriend than a 50 year old man.....
WTF is the matter with YOU??????? LOSER!!!!!!!
2006-08-14 09:08:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you are misunderstanding acceptance for approval. Ideally, sex should wait until a person (girl OR guy) is mature enough to decide when they are ready for such a major step. In reality, teenagers are taking that step at a younger age all the time. It is one thing for two youngsters, both equally clueless, to engage in sex. We don't condone it, but it happens. It is quite a different thing for an older, adult man to have sex with what is little more than a child. There are other countries where marriage at age 12 to 13 is still practiced, and even here in the US, there were some states where the age of consent was as young as 9! Attitudes DO change, and laws are changed to reflect them.
2006-08-14 09:17:37 · answer #2 · answered by Debbie D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually about a 100-150 years ago it was just fine for young girls to be married. 13-14 year old brides were not uncommon or considered wrong in anyway. Quite normal in fact. These were God-fearing Christians that would be absolutley disgusted if they saw the kind of crap that goes on in our society today. It was not until recent times that this became child molestation.
2006-08-14 09:14:20 · answer #3 · answered by ZenTurkey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I too don't think either one of those choices are ok for a teenage boy or girl.
Maybe it appears as though Americans care more about teenagers getting married than having sex because that is something more controllable.
Think about it. We can prevent teen age marriage... we can't prevent teen age sex. We can try but lets be realistic... it's going to happen.
2006-08-14 09:10:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am an american and I dont feel it is ok to do either of those things. I think teenage years should be spent having fun with friends, school activities, and just being young. Why involve sex, or marriage?
2006-08-14 09:04:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because American parents would prefer that their 14 or 15-year-old daughter have a 16-year-old boyfriend who beats her, gets her pregnant, and then bails on her than a man over 21 or older who takes care of her and respects and loves her? That's the ignorant American culture for you.
2015-11-20 15:39:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You cannot make everyone happy. Remember the man who carry his mule/donkey across the bridge's story?
2006-08-14 20:20:56 · answer #7 · answered by Grace is a liar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mental thinking
2006-08-17 21:33:29 · answer #8 · answered by yogesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋