My 2 friends and I just tried out for cheer in HS nd 1 of my friends made varsity and the other JV now im on freshman with a couple other friends but not my best friends. Im happy for them but im affraid that they are going to move on and become good friends with a lot of other ppl that i dont know nd start hanging out w/ me less and less. what should i do to make sure that i stay friends w/ them and they still have time for me?
2006-08-14 08:48:45 · 13 answers · asked by live.laugh.love. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
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2006-08-14 08:51:44 · answer #1 · answered by Genio Atrapado 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey, what are you so worried about. People change and grow apart and then come back together. You need to take care of you and find people to hang with who are into the same kinds of things as you are. If you really want to continue being friends with those girls, call them once in awhile to get together and put in some effort like that. However, I have a 3 call rule, if I call 3 times and don't hear back, then I move on and make my own happiness. Life is too short to waste time being with people who don't appreciate what a fantastic wonderful & fun person you are!!
2006-08-14 08:55:35 · answer #2 · answered by joandi_99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friends will be your friends through whatever different things they go through. I was a cheerleader in high school and my best friend wasn't involved in any school activities. We still remain friends. Sometimes people do drift apart, but I firmly believe they move out the way for other people to drift in. if you're anything like me you like to have one set of friends and that's it. But the reality is that in your life there will be many friends that come and go that will leave you with a little something to carry you on to the next relationship/friendship. Keep moving on and keep growing up.
2006-08-14 08:57:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I could write so many reasons for you not to worry, but I'll only write one. If they are really your friends, you will know sooner or later. If they turn out the other way, well as I said, why worry? You found out on time and friends you can make every day. GOOD LUCK
2006-08-14 09:04:27 · answer #4 · answered by ladydi9red 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dilemmas. I understand how cruel girls can be. I have a teenage daughter. Friends come and go. You will make many more if your lucky. The ones you have now, will not be your friends in College. Try to connect with the new friends. If your friends are true friends, you will not have to worry about them moving one.
Good Luck. Welcome to High School.
2006-08-14 08:59:50 · answer #5 · answered by Just_Hangan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Babe, your young. Friends come & go. Don't worry about them, if they are truly your friend they will stick around. Besides young girls are silly, they hate each other one day and absolutely love each other the next. Just let them go, if they want. You'll make several new friends and move on to bigger and better things. Don't let them make you feel like you aren't good enough for them, if they have to ''make time for you''
⥠hope i helped!
2006-08-14 08:55:10 · answer #6 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who says you only need 2 friends? When they get steady boyfriends you'll get dumped then too. You're young. You'll have many friends that will come and go during your whole lifetime. Enjoy your life and stop wasting time worrying.
2006-08-14 09:09:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
calm down... use it as an oppotunity to grow yourself... you don't have to have 2 best friends. Chances are one or all of you will move on anyway... highschool is just like that. Don't feel left behind... find some new interests and intersting people.
2006-08-14 08:53:21 · answer #8 · answered by Amy L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, you guys will still be friends. Just talk to them about it. And maybe they will introduce you to new people as well.
2006-08-14 08:54:11 · answer #9 · answered by Steph 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they really are your friends they won't allow that to happen and neither will you. Just do your thing and remember that you too will meet new people. Have fun!
2006-08-14 08:53:32 · answer #10 · answered by gemone523 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋