Could I say THANKS to everyone that gave me good sound encouraging words on this matter in my life, I?

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pray and go to church I am divorced from thst man june 12th 2006 saturday august 12th he re married another woman with children her name marilyn she wont listen to me it was told me that he is hiding behind his profession and church he going to slip again I was the second wife this one now is the third one this man remarries every three to four years he the one with the problems and thanks again for believing in me I told you all the truth and this is really a new beginning for me afraid but I know I will make it, at least I dont have him in my life yelling screaming punching me in the stomach nor watching him beat the dogs nor hitting a two year old child in the mouth making it bleed, nor seeing him thinking I was sleep going into my purse, or having other females calling and coming to the house, other females was allowed to call him on the job as his wife at the time I couldn't he told me once that his boss man told him to divorce me or he would loose his job he did divorce me fine

Answer 1

So sorry you've had a hard time in your marriage. Hopefully, you've learned some very important things through all of the turmoil. First of all, if you ever intend to have another relationship, find out why you were attracted to this man, then make sure you change your attitude about befriending guys like this in the future. There's always something to learn about yourself, in every situation, so learn more about yourself so that you don't fall into the same "rut" again. I've seen it done over and over again, where gals will continue to hook up with the same distructive guys, not learning anything from their situation, not allowing enough time to pass by before getting involved again. It's always a good thing to do a little "self inventory" so that you can see what it is that you can correct. The first thing is to realize you don't NEED a man to be a whole person. You may already know that, but I thought I'd say it again. You CAN function without a man, and very nicely. SInce you go to church, I feel free to speak to you as a "sister" in Christ. Make Him your first priority, then everything else will fall into place. He has a plan and a purpose for you, so focus on that. If He wants you to have a mate, He will find one for you. One who loves Jesus with all his heart & soul. That's the only man a Christian woman should even consider dating, let alone marrying. And yes, I know that there are guys who claim to be Christians, just to fool people. But, you'll know. Given time, everyone's true colors come out, either in their walk (what they do) or their talk (what they say & how they say it). You deserve the best that God has. The fact that you didn't get it should tell you something that you already know. Not waiting on the Lord is the biggest mistake that we can make, because then we get less than what He's had planned for us. Most times, He doesn't get in our way, and will allow us to do what we please. When we do that, we get in big-time trouble, then expect Him to bail us out. Please, dear sister, know that I'm not judging you. I'm trying to help you to be best of my ability. I don't ever want you to go through this again. If you are to marry again, God has the right man for you. It's possible that God wants you to immerse yourself in a ministry. So take this time to find out some things. Surround yourself with mature Christians who will come alongside you and support you with lots of encouragment, and lots of BIble study. It's through His Word that we'll find all we'll ever need, and the peace that passes all understanding. The past is past. All you can do is learn from this and move on. I truly hope all works out for you, my dear sister. <*)))><

Answer 2

i'm a Taoist, Determinist, Stoic, Chaos Theorist, Pantheist, Atheist. an excellent sort of philosophies. definite. Taoism. Derived from Lao Tzu's spectacular artwork the Tao te Ching. It teaches the three generic virtues, or jewels. Moderation, Humility, and Compassion. It teaches us to no longer contrive, and to relish causality. It teaches us that the main suitable leaders are not the main enjoyed, yet those whose matters know their very own accomplishments, and not the 'accomplishments' of the chief. Determinism. From the size of the enormous bang, each and every thing replaced into desperate by utilising the skill and magnitude of its explosion. each and every thing. That there could be life. What life could be right here, all of it. the only exception to this rule is the interplay of subatomic debris on a quantum point--which, certainly--has a profound result. Chaos concept: Elaborates on the Quantum mechanics uncertaintychronic with the aid of determinism. It sums up the two Taoism and Determinism splendidly. the finished scope of causality, the reason and result nature of the universe, besides because of the fact the very easy impact of tiny, insignificant issues which develop into substantial issues as time is going on, at last sweeping further and extra up into their direction as they handle new shapes of their very own. This at last explains very lots of evolution, and why it took the trails it did. Stoic. that there is little element at getting disillusioned approximately something. It in hassle-free terms makes issues worse. Pantheist: The Universe is God, and it ought to or won't be as smart as that's eye-catching and perplexing. Atheist: there is not any God, shop the potential for an smart universe. those are my ideals.

Answer 3

It sounds like you should leave him and his new wife alone. You may bring his attention back to you. If she does not recognize the signs of abuse in him she soon will.

Mind you own business and get to know and love yourself again. Now you can enjoy your child without having to worry of creating a new abuser. I'm happy to see that you chose life.

Answer 4

Wow, Honey you seem to have a lot of pent up anger, maybe you should seek counseling. Or group therapy, just to release some of the anger and bitterness that can come after one of these things

Answer 5

So long as YOU don't make the same mistake twice we are, I am sure, all rooting for you. Have a good future. Today is the first day of the rest of your life

Answer 6

Good luck to you. You did the right thing. Unfortunately, the third wife will have to learn the bitter lesson on her own. If he cheats with you, he will cheat on you.

Answer 7

Good to get out of such relationship. But still didn't get ur question. Sorry

Answer 8

You are welcome. Please try to move on or this is going to suck the life out of you. You are lucky to be rid of him.

Answer 9

you have no periods in this!?

Answer 10

You're very welcome. Keep your head up girl!