should I stay or should I go?

Question

My husband is driving me crazy and I am going to have a break down I am scared I am going to hurt him and I mean it. I don't know if I should stay with him or leave him. I look at other guy's and think damn he is cute, and I wonder if I should cheat or stay where I am unhappy.

Answer 1

All I can say is getting into another relationship will not solve your problem. If you want to leave, then leave, but don't take up with anyone right off the bat.

Answer 2

I assume you are tired of waiting for something 'break-up-worthy' and cheating would be sort of a cry for help for your inner self to wake up and end it all. I know where you're coming from - I get the same confusion when people say things like, -if you're unhappy; just get out. But in the midst of a relationship, it's not that easy. It's messy - disfunctional. We have a child ... I know exactly what you're saying. Just try to take care of you and DO NOT let him goad you. Do not hit him! If you watch cops ya know they take the b*tches off in handcuffs too!

Don't gripe about him to your friends/family -- cause they don't have any answers, they can't really help you, and you're starting to seem like the nag(?). I know you are so depressed /dissapointed /bored (sex lame too?). I wish I knew how to advise you, If I did -- Well, I wouldn't be in the same boat. -- . Sorry. BTW. You said cheat or stay??? OR? See you're talking to yourself!!!!like cheating is just the be-all end-all thing. Ya know?

My house is mine so, I can't just up and leave -- I'm guessing you have some equal difficulty and just need to form a plan for when the time does come ...(change the locks or have the 'other guy' come hang out on your couch-just kidding, but what, right?) get some type of help, before you snap.

Answer 3

What makes you unhappy with your husband? If you are unhappy then you should tell him and get out of the relationship before something happens that you will regret later in your life. Don't get into a relationship right away. Give yourself time to get your life together and straightened out before you do anything. Don't cheat, that is adultry and he can use that against you if you guys get a divorce.

good luck!

Answer 4

How long have you been married? Relationships can be tough and sometimes when things get bad we try to look at the grass on the other side of the fence, and I am telling you now that once you get there its not as green as it looked. I say this, if there is a way to work it out, try it but if you seriously think you are going to hurt your husband physically you should leave him and have yourself checked out mentally. Good Luck.

Answer 5

Are there kids involved? Maybe you need to go away for a weekend and relax without him go by yourself. If you cheat you may get caught and that will make it worse. Maybe if you go waway for the weekend to think and come back and have a heart to heart lay it out on the table and see where it goes.

Answer 6

You need to face your problems and get counseling if you have to. If you cheat on him it will only make you feel worse. If you really want to leave him do it with a clear conscience. Cheating is not a way to solve anything, that's only a way to run away from your problems.

Answer 7

I'm sorry but in my opion why would you want to stay in a marriage if you are unhappy. If it is for the kids thats wrong. I would rather have my kids Take turns with each one of us than be in a house together and we are constantly fighting. I would rather be happy and single.

Answer 8

Go into couple's counselling. Remember it takes two to tango and you may be misunderstanding each other. It's always best to sit down and talk to each other to be able to work out your problems.

Answer 9

Cheat for sure.

Answer 10

should go