2006-08-14 08:23:55 · 54 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Dear Cloeen,
I did, with one other person, but wish I hadn't. Besides the sin, I think it took the relationship to a level beyond where it should have gone, and generally made it much more difficult to break off the relationship when I realized that the person wasn't right for me.
-j.
2006-08-14 08:27:59 · answer #1 · answered by classical123 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yes I did, many years ago. I'm 43 now so i get to look back being objective. Whether it be a sin or not is up to a person's beliefs. I know that does not help you.
I can tell you though that having sex before getting married lead two people that had no business getting married to get married. My ex-wife and I got along great in one place and one place only...in bed. Our whole relationship was structured on it. The rest of the relationship was weak and hollow. Of course it(the relationship) fell apart because it wasn't built on solid ground. If for that reason and that reason only if I had it to do over again I wouldn't let sex interfere with my life that way again. If I had waited for the sex, I would have been better off...and so would have she.
2006-08-14 08:34:27 · answer #2 · answered by Thomas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had sex before I was married several times. I am not sure why, some was because I was under the enfluenance of alchol and other because I really thought I loved the person. Right now, I am engaged to the person I have been with for 6 years and we have a 4 year old son, I still believe that what I did and what I am doing is not right in gods eyes, but I believe that he understands the situation that I am in now and will forgive me if I ask.
2006-08-14 08:40:53 · answer #3 · answered by Hotbox25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not married yet and I have had sex. I did it because I was curious and I am glad I did. I do not believe in sins or a higher power for that matter so no I think it is a sin.
2006-08-14 08:30:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
Because at the moment we both thought we love each other (temporarily) enough to have sex.
God did not say that having sex before marriage is a sin. The religious leaders said that.
Beside why would God create humans to propagate the species and regard sex as a sin?
2006-08-14 08:32:24 · answer #5 · answered by Don S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I haven't had sex i'm barely 17 and I plan to have sex until i get married. I don't consider it a SIN SIN but I prefer to be clean to my boyfriend that I love so much. I'm glad his the same way and thinks the same.
2006-08-14 08:27:52 · answer #6 · answered by ~ceci-y-coco~ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let me begin by saying I'm 57 years old and yes, I did have sex before I was married.
Why? mostly out of curiosity.
Do I think it is a sin? No I don't, but that's because I categorize things that way.
Now let me say that in retrospect, that I wish I would have waited till I was married because I think it would have been a very bonding experience.
2006-08-14 08:31:45 · answer #7 · answered by SewHappy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, so I am not married yet, but no I do not intend to have sex before I get married. I believe it is a sin to have sex before marriage. Since it is said not to have sex before marriage many times throughout the Bible, God's Holy Word, I do not intend on having sex b4 marriage.
2006-08-14 08:28:41 · answer #8 · answered by Jesuslovesyou! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a lesbian and am not allowed to get married so I pretty much didn't have a choice now did I? No, I don't believe sex before marriage is a sin when it comes to either straight or gay couples.
2006-08-14 08:28:37 · answer #9 · answered by Scully 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes,I did and I had a child before we were married,I thought that I wasn't going to get married,I never thought that marriage was that important,just more paperwork and stress to worry about,but it was really important to my husband and finally I gave in because I really love him and I did want to spend the rest of my life with him.No I do not think it is a sin because Iam not a christian,Iam Wiccan and even if I was Christan I wouldn't think of it as a sin...
2006-08-14 08:58:56 · answer #10 · answered by Livingdeadgirl84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never, it's a great sin
Regardless of mentioning a name of a certain religion, just answer these questions :
1- Instead of marriage, what regulates the human being relationships ?
2- Instead of marriage, what is the recognizable difference between man and animal sex relationships ?
3- How can the female, particularily, get her rights if her boyfriend decided to quit the relationship, what would be the fate of the offspring?
2006-08-14 08:48:11 · answer #11 · answered by y_alrooby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋