why are so people so judgemental about my bf liking his balls hit?

Question

i know its a bit of an unusual kink and some people are "live and let live" about it. but it really seems to evoke some strong reactions from people. i mean they are his balls after all. whats so offensive about it?

Answer 1

i dont really care what he does solongs its not near me...

Answer 2

"My dear wendy, I've gotta admit, after reading your "expose" about your boyfriend's unusual habit, I smiled! Your funny!
Actually, I love to read what and how people write to describe an unusual circumstance. You even described his habit as "an unusual kink." Then, your conclusion, "what's so offensive about it" uncovers how you think about his habit in a judgemental way. If you really believed in "live and let live" you would not have described his behavior as "a bit of an unusual kink," but, there it is in your own typing. You have, obviously, found his behavior as slightly offensive, but, you pretend not to by asking a question that condemns others for the same conclusion.
I've gotta tell you girl, you seem 12 years old, or nearbouts because you are so tied up in judgement condemning others for what you believe, but, attempt to exonerate yourself from guilt by confirming what others might believe.
I sincerely believe your kinda mixed up girl and I believe its your way of thinking that makes most of your problem. Go to your main library and check out a book called "Inside the Criminal Mind." I think this might, in the long run, help you understand yourself better.
Good luck and best wishes!

Answer 3

Every one to their own. As a man I know what it is like to be hit in the balls and I assure you it hurts maybe that is why others cant accept anyone liking it done to them.

Answer 4

Just one example between many:
Have you ever heard about people that cut themselves, especially in the harms and legs and belly?
The great majority of them are women, young women.
It is their body alright but they are sick and must be helped, do you really think that is normal?!.
And how about if someone would take advantage of them by cutting them?, that would be even more serious.
Let’s face it, you know it is very wrong, but you like to do it, and it is not happening to you.
That is what is so offensive about it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 5

The problem is not with his particular proclivities, but the fact that you'd tell people about it. Probably nobody really cares, they're just appalled that you'd discuss it as casually as the weather.

Answer 6

If we could get it accepted for the next olympics maybe we would be in with a chance to win a medal.

Answer 7

A kick interior the shin? Haha, no longer even close. Its an indescribable soreness. And it hurts poor. i assume like an aching soreness. we could basically say, it hurts, and it extremely isn't any longer humorous.

Answer 8

Because you are mentally disabled.

Some facts about testicle trauma:
-It may cause the victim to throw up.
-It may cause the victim to passout.
-It may cause “testicular torsion”, by initiating a muscle spasm; this is rare but is a medical emergency.
-Testicles move freely and are slippery to avoid trauma, but if the trauma sustained by the testicle is hard enough (50Kg), the testicle will POP(rupture), and then probably must be removed. This is rare, and usually is associated with sport injuries when not wearing a cup. Even when can be repaired, the resulting inflammation will turn most of the contents into permanent damaged material.
-Even a medium force trauma will cause the destruction of spermatozoa-production cells. It will not cause sterility because those cells are in massive quantities, however those cells do not regenerate, it is permanent damage. And if hit many times or too hard, it may cause infertility, because the sperm count/mobility must be acceptable in order to get a woman pregnant by natural means.
-Will also reduce spermatozoa production as a result of hormonal changes, one of those changes is testosterone reduction.
-May rupture major blood vessels, and draining the scrotum will be needed. Or microscopic veins inside the testicles, this will permanently destroy cells indirectly.
-In case of very extreme trauma, the testicle/s can swell for more than a weak, with resulting excruciating pain and severe damage from prolonged heavy inflammation.
-It even may cause death as result of pain, heart will fail right away or will begin to fail until it stops, this is called “neurogenic shock”, and it is not that rare like people think.
-Among other symptoms, the victim will feel shock/panic/confusion/anger, embarrassment/humiliation; those feelings will be stronger if young; especially if they do not know or never heard about “kicking in the groin”. The victim may seem ok, but will try to hide those feelings. It depends on the person and from the situation. This will lead to Post-Traumatic Stress, the worse symptoms may only reveal a year lather! People forget about emotional trauma, but it is the worse, and will not go away like the physical suffering. All the men that like the fetish called “ballbusting”, like it because it happened to them in the past, they are physiologically very ill, it may change his life completely. The emotional trauma of being assaulted in such a private are, or the physical suffering, or the fact that it is a barbaric act, should be more than enough for girls not to do that; but the sad truth is that the only thing that make some(not all for sure) girls think twice before doing that is the permanent physical damage.
-Physical violence it is only acceptable if you are trying to defend/escape yourself from someone that is trying to use physical violence on you, and you may only use the necessary violence to escape harm. And kicking someone in the groin is only “acceptable” if someone is trying to kill you, or rape you, not because you are pissed off, and most certainly not for fun like it is most of the times, keep it a fantasy. Why you girls don’t tell your Dads what you did, I am sure they will be PROUD of you.
-Ironically, if someone is trying to kill you or rape you, probably is expecting that defense from you, and so you will not be able to kick him.
-This is becoming too popular, specially in schools, girls get sexually aroused by that!. Women look sweet, but…….they are very mean and cruel by nature, they just try to hide it, it is very sad. Lucky for women men are not very vindictive like women are, and men are not very aggressive towards women like women are towards men, in fact men are very protective towards women. Men like to see and touch women sexual organs, they do not like to hurt them or to see it happen to women.
Women are so much sensitive about their sexual organs and sexuality, but then do that to men and laugh!
-And nothing happens to these sex offenders because they are women, just one of many double standards and laws that always treat men worse!

“women justice” is sick, how about if it was the other way around?!!!!!!!
Girls answers regarding this issue are always disgusting!

Answer 9

They are probably grossed out by his telling them about his private habits. No one will be judgemental if you keep your mouth shut.

Answer 10

im sorry.he likes getting hit in his balls? what is wrong with him! getting the slitests of knocks on my balls and im crying in the corner.

Answer 11

Tolerance or the lack thereof. But why would you tell anyone?