The way they joke, i do laugh, but sometimes a wonder why they act like this - it is only 2 of them...2 SEPERATE GUYS, no one else jokes with me like they do
they know that i'd never take any jokes seriously
Example:
They tease, they make fun but in a joke way, they avoid ever saying that they like my company or that im funny, i argue sometimes with them but we make up in the end, just general things like that....
i mean, none of my other male mates do that and none of my girl mates do that either!
Its just them two guys!
2006-08-14 07:59:47 · 24 answers · asked by Miss Terious 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I know the above stuff sounds really bad, but i know for a fact that they are sweet and caring at the same time, the joke stuff are strictly jokes...which i sometimes find funny
2006-08-14 08:01:53 · update #1
oooh sorry, i forgot to ask WHY they are like this LOL!!!
2006-08-14 08:05:27 · update #2
Sorry, i have to post this question again because i totally messed it up!
2006-08-14 08:08:07 · update #3
I know a lot of people who jokingly make fun of me, and tease me. It just tells me they are comfortable around me and they view me as a sister. They don't mean anything by it, don't take it too far. The friends that do it to me, have become so close to me, that they are like brothers. I could never like them in any other way.
It's just "brotherly love." Stop worrying about it, and just enjoy it...do it back.
If it really bothers you talk to them about...but always remember..they don't mean anything by it. Make sure to be nice, so that they don't get their feelings hurt.
2006-08-14 08:09:13 · answer #1 · answered by Hannah S 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have a male friend who does the exact same thing. Another friend of mine says he does because he likes me and he is immature so that is how he shows it. For instance, I know that if he says my perfume stinks (in a joking way, of course) that he really likes it. Or if we pass each other while driving he will say that I was staring at him hard, but obviously he was doing the same thing. I would take it in stride. Pick one that you might like and make a move. I would love to get together with my friend, but we have other complications holding us back, so we continue to play this silly game.
2006-08-14 08:08:06 · answer #2 · answered by sad1199 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All u've said thru' out is they joke and they joke and they joke in a nice way... if it doesnt bother u then y waste 5 pts... If it was done in a bad way u wud know by now... if u're just thinkin bout wot will ppl think then just chill....who cares...til u r having fun with these guys...s.c.r.e.w the world
2006-08-14 08:05:09 · answer #3 · answered by dd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-06 13:02:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't entirely understand the question. But from what you said makes me think that they like you but are too cool to admit it to anyone especially you. They joke around with you cause maybe thats the only time they get to hang out with you.
2006-08-14 08:07:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friends and I are like that, sometimes we get our feelings hurt but in the end we know it's all in good fun. As long as both you and your friends know the teasing is just that: "playful teasing", then I don't see a problem.
2006-08-14 08:05:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theyre just trying to tease you, thats all. They dont mean it in a hard way. Even if it is just the two of them, its only a joke. Talk to them, and see why theyre doing it.
2006-08-14 08:05:30 · answer #7 · answered by Faderal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its because they know you too well and what you do of that every second of every minute just one day try joking about them and see if they find it funny when they do it to you and leave them for a few hours see what they do
2006-08-14 08:06:00 · answer #8 · answered by Chesh » 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow.
well maybe they are nervous around you.
men can be alittle ruff some times and well,
they dont always know whats okay and whats not
if it really bugs you, speak up for yourself. Sometimes people push bondaries when they think its okay and its really not.
2006-08-14 08:05:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
good question .. when guys joke around sometimes u feel that they might be interested .. but when there are few of them, its not clear
2006-08-14 08:04:48 · answer #10 · answered by jess_792003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋