Why is it that no one seem to understands what I am tryin gto say here?

Question

I am not trying to step on any one toes here I am speaking through my own experiences here, I said things that pretain to me and if anyone is offended here by what I say well I am sorry I did not come here to fight or fuss with no one I had enough of that in an seven years abusive marriage, some say I stayed yes I did but when you in love no one can tell you to walk away until that person/I get tired of it and had enough, I was so punched in the stomach on two separATE TIME'S AT 16 WEEKS PREGNANT, i DID TO CALLED THE POLICE THE POLICE IN BATON ROUGE, LOUISIANA DID him nothing! telling me that he is an navy veteran that fought for this country and I would know better then to marry one and this ex of mine's mind is gone yes I went to counselor already didn't help they wanted me to answers my own questions while paying them to listen, this man tells me he raped had sex with my daughter and the law do him nothing? it is enough for me to walk up to him and shoot him dead, I have feelings to

Answer 1

First off, if you have a daughter, then shooting this man is not a way to escape. From the sounds of it, you are not with him any more now, right. If that is the case, then just walk away and learn from this. You can forget it and move on, I know that it will be hard, but forget him, he is a jerk and you did nothing wrong. As for your daughter, if she is young she is going to need to some therapy. She is going to have to deal with getting raped. since the police did nothing to him, just try to stay away from him, and if he keeps bothering you, put a restraining order on him, and he will have to stay away and the cops have to make him. You need to just learn that not all men are abusive, and learn to trust someone again. You can do it, you just have to set your mind to it that he might have hurt you, but you will not let it keep happening now that you are away from him. Don't keep going over it in your head, and stop reliving it, and you can go on. You have to, you have a daughter that needs you..

Answer 2

I only know that when you are in an abusive marriage it is best to get out. I was in abusive marriage it was verbal abuse. You do stay hoping things get better and because you love them. They get your self esteem down to nothing and make you think you are no good and nobody else will ever want you. Took me 14 years , finally could not take anymore was getting worse ,and my children hated the situation. So it was time to leave. I went to counseling and am a much happier person. But go to group counseling were others share your problems and don't put you down and they understand. Good Luck. Im is.. jingles_200

Answer 3

There is no magic to fix your situation. If you want to fix it then is going to requiere strenght, sacrifice and hard work.
If you don;t wanna do it for yourself because you love the other person still, tehn do it for yoru children. This is not normal and they don't need to grow up withnessing this kind of violence. Is your resposability to protect them from harm and if you don;t then you could also be cahrged with neglect and child endangerment for doing NOTHING.

You have to report him for child abuse. Look it up win the telephone book and they will investigate and brimg him to justice.

Go to a woman's shelter if you want to get out. They will help you and give your daughetr the therapy that she needs. Violence doesn'd fix violence and it will not help your children.

Answer 4

You can put a restraining order against him, then hook up with an officer to figure things out. You need to have evidence beyond a doubt. Videotape, audiotape, confession, pictures with time and date. Go to the station. Contact abuse shelters and such- they have every resource you could need. I wish you well

Answer 5

Get out now, take your daughter with you and go to a shelter. If you know that he raped your daughter and you stay even one more night some of the blame shift to you. Get out to protect your child. Her welfare comes before yours and she needs to be safe. Pack your stuff and leave now. Even if you have to leave with nothing leave now and then go to a shelter. Your daughter needs to be safe and secure. Again, get out. Turn off the computer and leave the house.

Answer 6

Strange ramblings here but from what I gather you are in an abusive relationship. Look up womens shelter or domstice abuse hotline in your local phone book and leave him. You don't need to shoot him... You need to leave it sounds like. Its your life and you can start over any time you want.

Answer 7

What they all said. Don't shoot him-you'll end up in prison then your daughter would be alone. Find a women's shelter. Southern states are notorious for being a "good ol boys " network.

Answer 8

You aren't very coherent. From what you say, you are nearly helpless in that location, no law, family or friends to help you. You must stop the abuse. Your choice is to run or fight. If you kill him, you go to jail and your daughter is left on her own.
Run!

Answer 9

I feel for you, that the poloce won't help, but, what is your Question? I have been in abusive relationship before myself. And you sound like you were in a very bad one.

Answer 10

tell your story to the media. Oprah, Maury, newspaper, whoever will listen and keep on telling until you find someone who will do something. The media loves to humiliate.