I've been thinking a lot about this, because I choose not to put a label on my sexuality due to the fact that it is limiting, not because I'm "greedy". I'm also from Cleveland so if you live nearby let me know! :) New intellegent friends would be great.
Thanks for reading by the way.
2006-08-14 07:53:43 · 16 answers · asked by meshquote 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I think it is due to the amount of testosterone that is flooded into the embryonic sack during development. Some people recieve more and some less which slightly alters the female and male makeup.
Don't let yourself feel as though you are different. Many people are gay and bisexual, but they just refuse to accept this as a part of who they are. Stereotyping and ignorance are what results from their fear or guilt that they may also be the same as those they are treating with disdain.
You are who you are, don't label yourself, enjoy your life. Follow your bliss. Be happy. The ones who denounce you, and say things evil about you, are just unhappy people, you should feel sorry for them.
2006-08-14 08:10:35 · answer #1 · answered by mark_jw2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same place homosexuality and heterosexuality come from - it's instilled in one before birth. However, studies have shown that most of the population is in fact bisexual to some degree and would be much more open about it if not for the social stigma that comes along with it. Homosexuality and heterosexuality are just the two opposite ends of the spectrum of sexuality.
2006-08-14 14:58:10 · answer #2 · answered by JR 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
That doesn't really have anything to do with being bisexual, it's just that you don't want to use a label (which is fine) and there is a difference between being bisexual and all the untrue bisexual myths (like being "greedy") SO what's your question?
I think you are born bi, just like you are born straight or lesbian/gay.
2006-08-14 18:50:07 · answer #3 · answered by MindStorm 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bi-sexuality stems form the desire and the want to have your cake and eat it too. I love to eat pu$$y and suck di(k, prefferbally at the same time. I was not born this was, I am not "On the fence" I am not "confused" I am not a lesbian in denial, I am "BI" I like sex with men AND women.
2006-08-14 17:02:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think bisexuality stems from curiosity....people get curious and so they land in the land of bisexuality and some live there for years until they choose one side
2006-08-14 15:40:40 · answer #5 · answered by tamika h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure where it stems from .I do know that some people like to experiment with their sexuality......
I've known so called BI women who get involved with their own gender then break up with the female they are with and go back to guys ..I also have learned in Psychology of Gender classes that some people are just libertines .messing around , the gay people who get involved with BI people ,especially women , generally end up really brokenhearted because of these types of relationships.
Why hurt someone like that ? It's dangerous to the psychological health of both parties........Although the women in these types of liasons get hurt more , men generally don't get as messed up in the head because men are more likely to not have a psychological bond to the other guy .In other words........Its just like straight people .Women , whether straight, or gay are more invested in the relationship , nestbuilders. Guys are more likely to be more active sexually whether straight or gay ..For females it's about love and guys it's about sex.That's why when a female catches her man screwing around with another female one of his first answers is :"IT WAS ONLY SEX ! ' This is not an excuse ,just how men are wired ..It takes a real man to stay with his woman and be loyal mentally and physically to her .
Theres a lot of stuff going on in the world that excuses male behavior .it's bogus.......
The ideal situation is to stay with your partner and not mess around ...
A lot of gay people males and females say that bi-sexuals are sitting on the fence and don't really want this kind of relationship ...
If you are able to , take a class on the "Psychology of Gender " it's a great class .
2006-08-14 15:16:14 · answer #6 · answered by cesare214 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think it's a question of where you are on the gender-bender scale at one end is total gay and at the other is total breeder.The question is weather you lean a little bit one way or the other...And its OK to be where you are on that scale. It is who you are you were born that way.
2006-08-14 15:01:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know, but I was reading a book last night where a little old lady of eightysomething told someone that she was bisexual. Then she explained that she'd had sex with two men. I thought that was so darn funny.
2006-08-14 14:58:26 · answer #8 · answered by theophilus 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Personally, I think it's the default orientation in human beings. I think people learn to be gay and learn to be straight.
2006-08-14 17:19:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
from inside and how u feel about that one person and for how long you have known that person and how u are to that person or it cud b how u where raised
2006-08-14 14:58:44 · answer #10 · answered by tuzsday r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋