2006-08-14 06:58:46 · 25 answers · asked by carman752042001 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
im 24 i am single christian female , i am looking for a guy who has the intrest in a girl that has kids?
2006-08-14 07:01:34 · update #1
You can marry someone for the children. It won't work unless the two of you have a relationship that is loving and stable. And, if it fails, the children will suffer.
2006-08-14 07:06:30 · answer #1 · answered by Otis F 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you want to marry it should be for love, not for your kids to have a father. A lot of single moms raise their kids on thier own. You should date, but not with anyone you meet on the internet. Stuff can happen, and a lot does and it's crazy. Take time with your kids, cause your young, and you have plenty of time to find that special someone. Right now use all your energy on your children, cause in the end they will remember that more.
2006-08-14 14:08:32 · answer #2 · answered by dreamer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always marry for love, because you have to spend the rest of your life waking up next to that person. You want to also keep in mind that your daughters are going to leave you one day, and then what will you do with a man that you don't love. Marriage is very difficult and if you start out without love then you don't have much to fight for when times get tough. What your girls need is a healthy loving mother, who is going to protect them and keep them safe. What you need is to be happy, and you will never be happy with someone that you don't love or someone that don't love you. Reserve yourself for someone who is going to nourish you with his love because having a man around doesn't solve anything, sometimes it brings more problems then what you bargain for. I am sure that your children would rather see mommy happy, then an unhappy mommy who married just so they can have a father.
2006-08-14 14:13:17 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marry for love definitely. Marrying for the sake of the Kids is to be dishonest to yourself, the kids, and the guy. If you marry for love, given that the Guy loves you, there will be no problem.issues you cannot over come as a family. The love will keep your family together and intact.
2006-08-14 14:05:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your kids don't need a father. As long as they have at least one person (you) who loves them, cares for them, and supports them, then they'll likely grow up to be happy and well-adjusted people. Some of the most screwed-up people I know are those whose parents got married or stay married because "for the children"- when you aren't happy, your kids will know and won't be happy either.
Marry for love.
2006-08-14 14:04:24 · answer #5 · answered by Not Allie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People are marrying for love and the divorce rate is over the roof~!
Perhaps marry because you want a father for your kids and you will have more luck.
However, whatever you do - make sure you tell your fiance the reason for marrying him.
I wish you and your children well.
2006-08-14 14:03:30 · answer #6 · answered by Pamela J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ultimately, you should marry for love. This will be the man you're pledging to spend the rest of your life with, who should love your kids too. But your spouse will be the one you live with after the kids are gone.
2006-08-14 14:03:39 · answer #7 · answered by ensign183 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For Love
2006-08-14 14:08:03 · answer #8 · answered by D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should NEVER, marry anyone for the wrong reasons. And if you are looking to marry someone just to be a baby sitter, that is wrong. But if you really love that person, then get married.
2006-08-14 14:04:06 · answer #9 · answered by Tim 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For love ! I think you ll regret it when years passed by and you wake up next to a person you do not love Im sure your kids will understand and in the long run Im sure you ll get someone better that loves you and you love in return.
2006-08-14 14:02:46 · answer #10 · answered by Misa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋