anyone to find me ever . I want to just go work maybe up in alaska in the fishing industry or somthing, anything . I hate it here with wife and kids ! I want a new life !
2006-08-14 06:49:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
go talk to a lawyer and have divorce papers drawn up. life doesn't have to be that bad. you are only trapped if you allow it. this is your life. live it the way you want to.
besides, sounds like they'd probably be alot better off without you.
2006-08-14 06:59:09 · answer #1 · answered by Gabrielle 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I suppose you could do that if you really wanted to.
But to do it in that way is going to catch up with you eventually.
You will never be able to proud of yourself, and you will find yourself telling lies about your past. And that will just increase your anxiety level.
Have you told your wife how you feel? Because I think you need to talk with a counselor and maybe with a counselor with her. Sometimes there are less drastic solutions to problems, only when we are so emotionally involved we can't think of them.
And surely you don't really want to hurt your wife or your children. You have to know that if you leave them they will think it is their fault. You wouldn't want to saddle them with that?
I can tell that you are in a lot of pain and you don't really say why, but I think your situation is serious and you need to find the kind of help that can really help you--a pastor, a counselor, a member of your family, someone who can help you kind of sort out your feelings and thoughts and help you work out a solution good for everyone.
It seems obvious that you are at the end of your rope--just hang on a little longer and get some help where you are.
2006-08-14 06:58:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a million) Sweetie, you've been raped. And on suitable of that, impregnanted. He wasn't there for you in the course of the entire time and now he needs to waltz in and act like he's entitled to something??? he's fortunate he's not in penal complicated! 2)If he says he has an complete time pastime, enable him instruct himself. He won't be able to anticipate you to easily take his be conscious for something.. except he's an fool. (which incidientally he's, yet inspite of) 3) do no longer project about your son resenting you for no longer having a father in his existence. which could no longer YOUR FAULT! You were impregnanted without consent and made the perfect sacrifice by technique of figuring out to flow by skill of with the being pregnant and be a mom. That takes actual braveness, exceptionally at the form of youthful age. you're merely dealing with what's been inflicted upon you- you probably did not make this happen deliberately. there'll be different men on your existence and a worth father verify on your son, i'm constructive. yet inspite of if that occurs, merely an uncle or male associates who very last will be good on your son. You dont might want to be romantically entangled with a guy for him to be an enduring male verify on your son's existence. once you're at it, be constructive you have become newborn help from this jerk off. inspite of when you're financially self reliant... actually more effective funds might want to correctly be utilized for a school fund. by no skill ever EVER be afraid that you're egocentric. Being a unmarried verify is the perfect sacrifice and also you're something yet.
2016-11-25 00:47:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get up off your self indulgent butt and go hug your children and thank god for your family--- people who write questions here about their profound lonliness would kill to have a wife and kids- the issue isnt about you needing a new life- its whether you are man enough to make something out of the one you have been blessed with
2006-08-14 06:58:30 · answer #4 · answered by Luci 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
start to like things around you man, or else you won't like anything on this earth. you seem similar to my friend who hates things around him..u should know this..
KNOWN DEVIL IS BETTER THAN UNKNOWN ANGEL...
change yourself and iam sure you'll enjoy..turn ur kids and wife happy by giving them what u could..they wouldn't say no..coz they know men!!!
2006-08-14 06:56:10 · answer #5 · answered by Seungyong W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
walk out and go somewhere then. don't open a bank account, own a house or car, have an email address or blog either.
2006-08-14 06:55:59 · answer #6 · answered by shq_foxyfaerie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
running away from problems does not solve it.......the new life that you want to start may also end up with problems......and the most important thing is be contented with your life......your approach to life is sarcastic....change your attitude......
2006-08-14 06:56:36 · answer #7 · answered by shreya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn from Scott Peterson's mistakes. Study and do it yourself. It shouldn't be that hard.
2006-08-14 06:56:30 · answer #8 · answered by rab2344 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No matter where you go there you are.
2006-08-14 06:57:40 · answer #9 · answered by hello 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋